Do you wash down there every time before sex

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Ladies - do you go for a wash down there every time before a sexual encounter (even if with long term partner)?

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Not specifically for sex but I'm always clean down there anyway as I bath every morning and before bed.

Mrs F is very clean, showers daily
I much prefer it when she has showered in the morning and we have sex at night probably TMI I love the taste/smell of her, the next morning pre shower is better, if we have had sex when we went to bed even better still.
When we have sex after she has showered she does not taste of anything but soap
She says the same about giving me oral she loves the taste of us as much as I do

For us 12-24 hours is is perfect
When we were first together she would go to the loo and use wipes etc for me nothing worse

I think I just vomited in my mouth.

@Fritilleries

I think I just vomited in my mouth.

Don't come on the sex topic then if you're so easily afflicted by sexual things.

I prefer to shower before sex, but that is not always practical.

I used to prefer having a shower or bath before sex but my DH has told me many times that he loves the smell and taste of me in the evening (after showering in the morning) and also in the morning, 24 hours after a shower.

The amount of time he spends giving me oral he clearly enjoys it, especially when I'm not "freshly clean" so I've stopped worrying so much and focused more on enjoying it instead.

@Fritilleries

I think I just vomited in my mouth.

Rude

I am 100% with you DH
My wife has long since stopped stressing that she has not scrubbed herself in the last 10 mins - the smell and taste turn me on much more than soap, probably nature’s way of encouraging humans to have more sex (who knows)
I love that she just concentrate’s of enjoying herself, for me nothing sexier than seeing her having a good time

As the old song goes, we are made of sugar and spice and all things nice 😉.

Abso-fucking-lutely.

In my dating days, I'd always shower before going out if there was any chance of sex happening. Now I just have a quick wash down there before bed.

No.

I give at a minimum a curtesy wipe around with a water wipe

@Annwen

In my dating days, I'd always shower before going out if there was any chance of sex happening. Now I just have a quick wash down there before bed.

The good old bird bath method.

No, but I shower in the mornings and I have a portable bidet (squeezy bottle) that I wash with every time I use the bathroom sometimes just water sometimes with soap too. It's a game changer as we're very sexually active lol (no kids ATM) but he has said he likes my natural scent and I like his too - sometimes the best sex is spontaneous not worrying about cleaning up beforehand, just get to it I don't care if that's tmi, we shouldn't be embarrassed of our natural selves we are just animals really, our pheromones serve a purpose too

My partner prefers my smell/taste first thing in the morning after sex the previous night. I used to worry but he clearly loves it. I shower every morning without fail.

As a bi woman, the amount of women that think/assume they are fresh enough down there to not bother with the pre shag shower, is disappointing! Maybe I have a heightened sense of smell and taste, but please be courteous ladies!
Thank god the 80s minge has gone now though! That held odours like a shag pile carpet, yuk!

I literally always shower first. It makes me way more relaxed and at ease! Can't imagine not.

Always shower before oral. Both of us do.
Before sex.. sometimes but not always.

For those of you who shower / wash immediately before sex - is the sex never spontaneous then? I can't think of anything worse than getting in the mood and then being like 'brb gotta wash' 😂

It could have been a week since I'd washed and I don't think Oh would be bothered. He's always telling me how much he loves the taste.