Hi everyone ! I’ll try to keep this short … my husband has been using some kind of pump thing to try to get better erections for about a month now which basically involves some forcing the penis to fill with blood for 20 mins a time I think in the suction tube , he’s also been doing some kind of pulling thing every day but again I’m not sure what’s involved as he does it all in the bathroom . It seemed to be working for him and he said he was getting night time elections which he hadn’t had for a long time etc etc and although I wasn’t keen on The pump thing especially I kind of left him to it assuming he’d done his research . Any way fast forward to yesterday morning and his penis had gone very very small but when you felt it you can feel it’s hard underneath ? My husband read up and it sounds like hard flaccid , something to do with a trauma injury and the pump is listed as a possible cause ! The problem is that it says not many doctors know how to treat it and that it can’t always be treated at all meaning sex would actually be impossible . My husband is besides himself , he’s been awake all night and now has gone to work but can’t stop thinking he’s ruined our lives as we won’t be able to live like this . He has a gp phone appointment on Friday but I honestly don’t know if this can be fixed . He looked on a forum for men with this problem and some have had it years and tried all sorts but can’t undo the damage that has been done . Can anyone offer any advice at all , he’s not even 40 yet and his mental health hasn’t be great this year and I’m so worried about the path we are about to go down . Sorry this was quite long but I honestly don’t know how I can help him or what to even say at the moment . Thanks for any help x