Went through a long dry spell with OH where he wasn’t interested in sex and couldn’t even get an erection. It felt personal although I know it was stress related but I thought he didn’t find me attractive and I lost my body confidence quite quickly. Now he is feeling more ‘up to it’ I’ve suddenly become shy and uncomfortable even being naked in front of him makes me feel exposed to a stranger. I avoid letting him be intimate towards me and try to focus on his pleasure instead of my own (oral sex) but I’m now starting to become frustrated and want that intimacy back. We used to be close and I was comfortable immediately with him the first time we had sex, now I don’t know where to look or put my hands and he thinks I am bored because of this. What’s happened to me and how do I fix it!!