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Tinder chats

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steadders21 · 13/01/2022 16:09

So.. have just started looking into dating after ending a long term relationship. Didn't expect much from Tinder - seemed full of creeps but have matched and chatted to two really nice people. AIBU to continue to chat to then both without letting them know the score? I don't know what it is I'm looking for. One is very easy to talk to and the other has been very flirty which has been fun. Don't know what to do as this is all very new and don't want to try overthink things as it may all come to nothing and maybe I should just enjoy the fun?

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Sparkybloke · 13/01/2022 16:34

I'd say not. See how things go with them. You've not even met them...presumably...just chatted. They may fizzle out or you may decide A is no good but B and E are promising...I met my OH on a dating site a while back. I chatted to several women over several weeks and met three. Two didn't click but as soon as I met the third I knew she was the one so to speak. The others were messaged to tell them I was no longer interested...I gave no reason...seven years later we are still together...

Sparkybloke · 13/01/2022 16:35

I.e you are not being unreasonable...have a bit of fun..

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steadders21 · 13/01/2022 16:50

Thanks Sparkybloke what a lovely story- I will have some fun and see how it goes 😊

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Sparkybloke · 13/01/2022 17:33

Good luck but do exercise a little caution when and if you meet people...while many people On dating sites are genuine...all the ones I met were....sadly some are.not what they seem. I am a bloke so was very very much less likely to run into problems but as I think you are a woman do ensure the meet place is public and someone knows where you are. If you are meeting in the evening in a bar be aware and never leave your drink unattended and pick a venue which runs the "Ask for Angela" scheme....

MisterT373 · 13/01/2022 18:08

Go for it!

furbabymama87 · 13/01/2022 19:22

I suppose it depends what impression you're giving. If it's very early stages and you're enjoying having fun, I see no harm and you don't owe them anything really. But I have a friend who's seeing 2 guys, sleeping with both, sometimes even on the same day and I don't think that's fair that they both think they're in relationships with her. So at the point you decide you want to take it further ( which you may not) either come clean or let one go.

xpc316e · 13/01/2022 20:31

Mt lovely 28 year old daughter has been living with her super boyfriend for nearly two years, and they met via Tinder. Any website, app, or whatever will have a cross-section of users; some will be fake, creeps, etc., while others will be genuine, nice people.

Just use your senses and have fun.

HappyToSmile · 14/01/2022 07:14

Dont worry about how many you are chatting to until you have met up with one/any of them. You can get on really well virtually but when you meet them, it is completely different, which is often disappointing!!

curmudgeonly007 · 14/01/2022 10:04

Echo @HappyToSmile comments

Nothing is real until you meet up, what ppl put on chat and how they behave IRL can be completely different for both sexes.

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