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Huff over intimate photo

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spacecadet · 14/12/2021 14:55

Started seeing someone in the summer and it's been a LDR since October. We had a few great weeks before I had to leave for a job in another country but have been whatsapping pretty regularly since and have planned a trip away together after Christmas.
The problem has arisen that he's very insistent about me trusting him enough to send him pictures. I've been fine with just the odd topless pic and even did a video call the other night. He wants more and has asked for a v-pic - sending me an example from the Internet as a reference point 🙄. When I said I wasn't happy to do it and had some boundaries he took the huff and said he wouldn't expect boundaries between him and his gf. I'm shocked because it now looks like our trip is off and the relationship is over.
He tried to justify his actions by saying I obviously don't love him as much as he loves me and has now gone silent. My question is, is there anything to salvage here or is this terminal and we are seriously going to break up over a v-pic?!

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chocolateonmyface · 16/12/2021 22:45

I’d ask for a dick shot when hard with his face showing.

HairyFanjoBanjo · 17/12/2021 13:16

If he wants a photo of a cunt, he can take a selfie, job done.

Ruple · 17/12/2021 15:42

@HairyFanjoBanjo

If he wants a photo of a cunt, he can take a selfie, job done.
Brilliant Grin
spacecadet · 17/12/2021 20:19

So he apologised and said it was something he used to do in his previous LtR and that it was wrong to ask me. I've accepted his apology and have stopped all risqué photos and so far he's been fine with it. I'm going to see where it goes from here but want to thank all of you for your responses - some of them were hilarious!

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Thisisworsethananticpated · 18/12/2021 09:23

V pics for women are very different to men
They wack out dic pics like it’s nothing
But it’s not the same
To be honest he sounds like a total dick
If he wants a pussy he can go in pornhub for fucks sake

Sounds like he’s using this as his reason but it’s probably something else

I’d personally not reply for quite a few days and assess what his issue is really
Twat that he is

babadoll79 · 18/12/2021 19:29

He needs to get a grip

DirtyDancing · 18/12/2021 20:28

"He tried to justify his actions by saying I obviously don't love him as much as he loves me and has now gone silent"

Right. And if he really loved you, he want to force you or guilt you into sending him something which you don't want to do.

He's a twat. Defo end it.

gofigureit · 18/12/2021 20:33

@GeorgeOhWell

If he wants a picture of a twat tell have to take a selfie.
Very good!
Josuk · 20/12/2021 11:17

Pictures aside - what is the plan for this relationship?
Generally long distance can work if people start off in real life, have a solid relationship, and then have a defined period of when LD ends.
Yours started as long distance. What sort of future do you see in this?
Why not date someone you can have a normal relationship with - that can develop naturally?

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