How did you feel after a threesome?

[MsWalterMitty]

DH and I are totally on the same page when it comes to sex. We communicate really well and have a very healthy sex life.

Soo wet have decided to explore the possibility of having a threesome or foursome with another couple, I am particularly bi curious and would love to invite another woman in to the bedroom with us.

We talk about it alot and have been chatting to other couples and another woman on an app set up for this. I’m very turned on by the idea when we talk about it, and love talking to other couples with my dh.

I have one big worry though, which I’m hoping those who have experience can help me with?

DH is only my second sexual partner, I was 20 when we got together… it’s been 17 years since I’ve ever touched/kissed/slept with anyone else! And although I love the idea! I’m worried about my actual feelings during and after, particularly being with another person and also, importantly watching my dh with another woman.

Can you tell me how the reality felt compared to the fantasy?

Thank

@MsWalterMitty "So you were able to overcome your pangs afterwards? Did they affect your relationship afterwards?"

Yes it did affect it I guess. I know in my own mind I did dwell a little on what I saw with him with her. It made me want to ask him questions about things I saw and what he liked that night which usually happened when we were in bed playing.

There is no doubt he got very aroused even recalling that night and that rubbed off on me, especially when he described what he saw with the other guy having me and what turned him on. It made us more adventurous, more dirty (lol) and tried different things.

I'm not sure I would want to go there with my now DH though. You have limited experience before and have together a long time so jealousy could be a problem. You don't really know until it happens.