Am I the best wife ever and is this a normal fantasy?

[Geeksquad]

I’d love to watch a woman dominate and have (lots) of sex with my husband. I wouldn’t want to join in, just direct the foreplay and then walk out leaving them to do the deed. Then I’d love to hear about all the details later! Is this normal? Haven’t told the husband but if he was up for it, how would I find someone to do this with?

I think you’d be looking at paying someone for this service. That might change the feel of it for you? And for him?

Dh can confirm, that no, in his opinion this doesn't make you the best wife ever.
He would hate it and suspects you'd need to pay someone, which for him would be the polar opposite of a turn on

hmm think you would have to discuss this with husband or partner might be ok for him or might be his idea of hell also please remember fantasies are one thing reality can be quite another

Sounds like you may enjoy a cosy swingers club....I've seen many couples acting out their fantasies in the safety of a club.
Lots of chat first....be clear you understand each other's desires and concerns.
Have fun, whatever you decide!

You need to really think through how to cope with jealousy. I'm not sure I could

Your options are to either hire a professional Domme or join a swingers / kink community.

You'll find lots of info on Killing Kittens, FAB or Fetlife.

Depends whether your husband is into it whether you're the best wife ever.
Also, I would suggest you think long and hard whether the reality of this is as hot as the fantasy is for you. Also as a side note, you may have to accept that just because your husband may agree to this, he may never agree to the opposite and that would have to be discussed before too I think.

I say that because if my partner suggested this to me a bit of me would assume that it's because they wanted to do the same.

Fulfilling YOUR OWN fantasy does categorically not make you the best wife ever. Get a grip on yourself. Literally.

Sounds like you need to visit a swingers club!

But really just talk it through with your husband, personally I'd think you were the best wife ever, but others may not agree

What’s normal really? Consenting adults in a relationship can define their own normal.
There are two parts to your fantasy. One is where there is another woman with your H. Even if you aren’t participating - that is a more common fantasy and many men would be happy with that. - also relatively easy to find a willing free participant on the websites mentioned above.
The second part is where your H gets dominated. Unless your H has a submissive fantasy too - this isn’t something many men would necessarily enjoy.
Do you have a reason to think he wants to be dominated? Are you sure you don’t want to do it yourself?

But would your husband enjoy it? Bit of a moot point otherwise.

I think you’d be looking at paying someone for this service

Nope.

You could definitely find someone by Fabswingers or Fetlife, @Geeksquad .

Discuss the details of what you imagine with your husband and maybe you could find a scenario that does something for both of you, or some compromise that he's ok with.

Then using profiles on Fab and FL make it clear to others on the sites what you want, and look for people with those interests.

Of course it could be that youur husband isn't into the idea at all, in which case you'd have to live with it or decide if it's a dealbreaker for you.

There are 2 parts to it- sex with someone else and being 'dominated' by the woman, whatever you personally imagine by that. He might not be into being dominated (or he might) but might be into the sex with someone else fantasy. It's something you'd have to talk to him about to see what he's up for (if anything.)

Or if not you could think of other ideas together.

Wow people aren't very open minded for a sex forum
Agree op try a swinging type set up and app