Age guilt / dilemma

[RosieBenenden]

I am 46 and my DH is 55. We have lovely children and a comfortable lifestyle, boarding school, great house, both professional jobs. We have been married for 23 years now and a conventional sex life. Nothing amazing but caring and at weekends we will often have sex. I have found recently I am wanting sex however less and less with DH. I feel we are going through the motions and I am finding sex with him increasingly dull. My guilt is that I have no desire to try spicing things up as I am constantly thinking of a man 24 who has recently started working in my firm. I think of him every day. I want him. We have flirted and I am on the verge of making it clear I would have sex if asked. AGE GAP?? advice - is it odd/inappropriate age difference?

Get over yourself. You are old enough to be his mum.

Give your head a shake and buy a toy to sort your Fanny gallops out.

Or talk to your husband.

Op, you have made your mind up. I am not sure what advice you really want or need.

Oh yes, rosie has posted about being in a sexless marriage and craving an affair and then a few weeks later talks about their adventurous sex 5 days a week

Thank god I've managed to avoid disasters like you for my whole life.

Having been the 24 year old in this situation...I am shuddering. So many times me being nice, polite and kind was misconstrued as flirting and being constantly up for sex.
Work situation - 200% don't go there unless you want to be fired for sexual misconduct. Seriously. Grow up.

@tootootaataa

Get over yourself. You are old enough to be his mum.

Give your head a shake and buy a toy to sort your Fanny gallops out.

Or talk to your husband.

I suspect that Our Rosie is old enough to be his hairy-handed dad.....

I was under the impression that in dating someone younger the rule of thumb was half you age plus 7 years.
If the OP does go ahead I can't help thinking they will become the laughing stock of the company as well as wrecking their marriage.

Just as long as your DH agrees it's OK. I don't see the AGE GAP as the issue.

What does boarding school / Cambridge/high achieving got to do with attraction??
Do you realise your criteria for attraction is not the rule book for the rest of the world!! For example, I find low morals extremely repulsive.

Why won’t you leave your DH and then go on your adventures?

Why won’t you leave your DH and then go on your adventures?

Well according Rosies posts from 2018 she did just that

@Wherearemymarbles

Why won’t you leave your DH and then go on your adventures?

Well according Rosies posts from 2018 she did just that

Was that before or after the BDSM ? the cocaine sex and the voyeurism ? mind you she did offer to share the prostitutes details as it was a lovely girl

'Was that before or after the BDSM ? the cocaine sex and the voyeurism ? mind you she did offer to share the prostitutes details as it was a lovely girl'

post and I fell in the trap

@Wherearemymarbles

Why won’t you leave your DH and then go on your adventures?

Well according Rosies posts from 2018 she did just that

OK, I'll admit that's what was confusing me too.

I give you permission to be unfaithful.

Happy now?

She is also very keen for private messages in nearly all her posts!

@Otterhound

MN has a very useful search function…. and whilst dear old Rosie has been posting for years, there are, dare I say it, considerable inconsistency’s in her posts regarding all things sex

So I take her posts with large doses of salt…

This with bells on 😉

Recent posts include , no sex for 5 years.
Spend 10 minutes on foreplay then 5 minutes dtd.
They have solo sex , then don't like masturbating.

OP you'll make a complete fool of yourself at work if you do this ( This happened at my work and the woman is a laughing stock).

I get the feeling this OP is actually a man who likes to speak to women about sex in a safe place. It’s a kink

You should go ahead with the youngie, it can be fun, just call him when needed, but don't get too involved.

'hun' go for it, bet he loves doing it under a bridge.

Just leave your husband surely?
He deserves better than to be treated like that ,and the fact you went to boarding school and are so highly educated has nothing to do with the fact you are a harlot devoid of any moral compass. HTH.