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Sex messaging ?

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genevievesgenie · 08/10/2021 21:09

I see my partner once a week.
He was kind of shy sexually when we
Met 18 months ago. He is since become
More comfortable expressing
His needs and desires and using sexy
Language. It's great!
We are hotting things up by sex messaging when we are not together but I need ideas ! It's new and I love a bit of filth !
We text what we would like to do to each other when we see each other but it's becoming a little repetitive of that makes sense . I feel comfortable posting here so please, can you give me
Suggestions thanks .

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MadameMonk · 08/10/2021 22:01

I’ve been honing my sexting skills recently with a terrific FWB.

Firstly don’t fall into the trap of ‘too much too soon’. If you text something ‘main event’, you’re stuck for a sequel in that sexting thread. So start slow. Don’t give too much detail early. Drop teasing tidbits.

Don’t ignore ‘pre & post’ your meetup topics. I text about my rituals before meetups- things I’m doing to prepare my body, my room, food, etc. And things I do/feel after we’ve parted- physical reminders of him on me, the sexy smell of the sheets, my cat-like satisfaction, etc.

Think laterally- sometimes I send funny musings about sex, that turn into longer (hot) text talks. Yesterday I sent one about how we were so good together we’d need to try bad sex one day, just for variety, and what would that look like? What ensued was both sexy and hilarious (and I discovered I’d missed a trick with him and light fingernail moves Wink).

I sext about how I’m wishing him with me while I’m doing very mundane tasks, and how he’d make them more interesting. I got him so het up recently about things we’d do in my laundry that later I sent a pic of just my washing machine and he loved it! Or if he tells me something mundane about his day, I’ll turn it rude instantly. Eg him: ‘l’m building a fence today.’ Me: ‘mmmm yes, you are so good at things that are long and strong’.

Redefine the emojis. Over the months, I’ve found double-entendres for almost all of them, I think! He particularly likes that upside down smiley face one at the moment…. can you guess? Grin

genevievesgenie · 08/10/2021 22:20

Love these ideas and agree that too fast too soon can put a halt to things.
I like the idea of adding sexiness into the mundane and double entendres are always a winner ! Thanks

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bedtimeisthebest · 09/10/2021 13:37

Sexting is great and can be very powerful and erotic.

My FWB will sometimes sext me if I haven't met her for a while and I find it a real turn on.

The filthier the language the better for me.

It's a great wat to connect when you're not together.

kneelingknievel · 09/10/2021 14:10

Try a suggestive limerick or two, but change the last work to something that doesn't rhyme, but can still make sense to the reader. Write a short poem that had a word or meaning you both have for each other or has a personal link.

Something like this-:

I'd give all the tea in China.
Don a lamp and become a miner.
With my mouth buried deep.
You won't hear a peep.
As I'll be devouring your peach!

Sparkybloke · 09/10/2021 21:07

While Titian was mixing rise madder
His muse reposed on a ladder
Her position to Titian
Suggested 'coition'
So he ran up the ladder
And had her!
In all seriousness go with what you like. Some like double entendre. Some like plain speaking and so called dirty talk...some like naughty pictures. Suggestive texts I it for my dp!

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