Sex during marriage breakdown

[Maltesers85]

I’ll try to keep it short…
My DH left the marital home a few years ago for a week and then returned, he wanted to leave me, he then did something similar a few months ago for a night and returned home again, this was because we was about to have sex and my mind just wasn’t in it, he left the house late at night and started bringing up past grievances, then returned in the morning.
Recently again he told me he wanted a divorce, then carried on like normal - I told him if he wants to leave he’s welcome to. We had a chat about our differences but didn’t seem to discuss the future of our marriage. We haven’t had sex for a good while now and to be honest the thought of having sex with him again doesn’t appeal to me, I feel I’ve lost respect for him. I really want to have sex again but I just don’t think it would work? But I can’t go on having a sexless marriage, I want to have a healthy sex life again…

Let him have his divorce and you keep your dignity, what a fuckin wanker.
This will only get worse and you will be at rock bottom dont let him have all the say at all.
Sit him down and tell him he is treating you like shit and you wint out up with it ,then tell him to move out and stay out.

Wont put up with it *

Sorry but it sounds like he’s causing an argument as an excuse to go have sex with someone else.

It certainly does not seem as though he is in any way committed to the marriage, and hasn't been for some time.

This life is not a dress rehearsal, so I say draw a line under this relationship and begin your life afresh. We all deserve to experience the true happiness of a decent relationship. A satisfying sex life is good for us in so many ways, so create one for yourself.

Best wishes.