Only when he's drunk...

[luannlele]

Back story: me and dp stopped alcohol 8 years ago.
I'm 8years sober. He started drinking about 3 years ago.
We've had our ups and downs, separated and got back together.
Sex life used to be good then great then just bland.
He drinks every weekend and wants to have sex when I'm falling asleep after a long week of work, household duties and dealing with lo's.
This is the only time we have sex. When I am half asleep when he's steaming drunk. I am just not interested in having sex with someone who's drunk, stinks of booze and needs to piss every 5 mins during attempted sex then when I use the loo after sex I have to clean the toilet seat and surrounding floor because it's covered in piss! (Just wanted a rant there!)

yuck. Teach him to sit down to pee when he is drunk. I sit down to pee at night when I am half asleep and it saves any mess.
I'm not sure that I've want sex with someone who was so drunk they kept going off to pee either.
I think you deserve a better deal that he is offering.

You need to leave. His behaviour sounds simply dreadful. Find a man who will treat you with respect...you so deserve so much better....

@sparkybloke Leaving is not an option when you live someone!

Love even haha oops

Leaving is an option when you love yourself and see that you can and will do better and you deserve better.
I personally couldn't be with someone like that how revolting.

I feel there is much, much more to this than rubbish drunken sexual attempts. I'd have to ask whether there is any inner resentment towards him after he's back on the sauce and you aren't.

@Xpc361c there is definitely not any resentment in this. I gave up alcohol because I wanted to support him, the smell of alcohol makes me feel physically sick now. He doesn't go out to drink he's a home drinker so it's not resentment or jealousy for that matter