Clitoral question

[MudPit]

I don't orgasm from PiV but always from oral, vibrators, or fingers. However, I am unable to feel anything in my clitoris if he is inside me (or if he puts fingers in during oral). Whilst I am perfectly happy with everything we do, I don't understand why this compartmentalising would occur. Does any one else have any experience of this? Is there anything I can try or should I just accept that it's one thing at a time?

I think it's fairly common. It took me a while to be able to come through penetration, I experimented with lots of different positions to see which gives the most clitoral stimulation. Maybe try using a vibrator during.

Do you mean if your clitoris is touched at the same time as penetration?

@Hlgwsbytktu Yes, exactly that. No sensation whatsoever in that situation.

I have this aswell. It feels completely different if there is something in my vagina. I lose all sensation in my clitoris. I don't know why this is!!
I can orgasm easily through clitoris stimulation only.
Sometimes I feel really hard done by because I have no sensitivity in my nipples /areola, I cannot orgasm or feel much from penetration, and have no sensation in the clitoris whilst being penetrated! It's all abit crap! Luckily I have a very good husband who knows what I like and pleases me well

@Hlgwsbytktu I'm sorry that you have that too but I'm also glad to know it's not just me! I'm the same re. nipple sensitivity, too. Does nothing for me at all.
I've tried using a vibrator during penetration but I can't feel it at all when he's inside me. Very strange. But - as you say - having an understanding partner who knows what you like makes all the difference.

Add me to your club? Same here. It’s like one switch goes off if anything goes in. And I quite like penetration per se, it’s just never going to go anywhere really. Even worse, I reckon there’s a lag with this insensitivity switch. So when you go back to clitoral stimulation on its own, it’s slightly numb and takes longer than you think to get back on track. Sometimes you get that feeling that you’re derailed for good?

I just accept ‘one thing at a time’ and try for a good orgasm before penetration so I can relax into ‘whatever else’ without disappointment. Anything later is a bonus!

I’m the same. No nipple sensation. And the only thing that gets me off is my rabbit vibe. It’s sad but I’m 50 now so I try not to care anymore.

Do you ever go on top? If I make circular movements with my legs when on top I get the most amazing orgasms through clitoris but can still feel him inside me. Might work for you too 😊

Does your clitoris get switched off if you use a dildo to penetrate yourself or is it only when you're with your DH?
If you stimulate your clitoris first, and then you have PIV without stopping, does it still happen?
(Sorry. I naturally try to solve puzzles.😀)
Maybe it's like a tens machine effect where overloading one nerve stops the brain noticing another?

Trying to imagine circular movements with my legs while I'm on top - am I lying flat on him maybe?

I really noticed the difference when I tried a dildo and a bullet together. I did come because of the bullet, but either the pressure of the dildo or I think the fact that my clitoris was restricted in how far it could move as it bumped against the dildo made it a really poor orgasm.

Yes I'm the same! I can only Orgasm through PIV if he's on top going very slowly in missionary. Anything else my clitoris turns off. I find it super frustrating. Men seem to be able to come very easy and I've always struggled.

My client is very sensitive if I'm having anal. Mind blowing orgasms. But not PIV. I usually try and get what I need during foreplay, it makes PIV more enjoyable anyway 😊

Clit, not client ffs...
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