Dp is keen to watch me and another woman

[Allypallya]

Been with DP for 2 years after our respective marriages broke down . I've literally felt like I've had a sexual awakening with him.
He is very keen on watching. Likes watching me masturbating etc and that is fine with me.
He's started mentioning just recently about watching me with another woman. For example when I mentioned I was getting a bikini wax he got quite turned on and suggested what we might do etc.
He would now like to turn this into a reality and I'm wondering if I would too. But where do you start? He's suggesting a massage with an " erotic ending " while he watches, but do such things exist ?

Agree with above - what do you want, and have you thought about the implications of it?

A massage involving sexual contact is, presumably, going to involve paying a sex worker to do what you want her to do. Is that really something you’re happy to do? Because even if you don’t object to the sex industry on moral grounds (which is certainly something to think about whether you do in the first instance), anything involving somebody who is being paid to be there is basically having somebody fulfil a customer service position. It’s generally not very sexy or relaxing.

Have you considered sex parties (such as Killing Kittens) or parties with a playroom (TG, Imaginarium, Sparkle Hard etc)? They’re environments where you can meet like-minded people and do things at your own comfort level, knowing that anything which would happen is with somebody consenting who genuinely wants to get sexy with you.

He would now like to turn this into a reality and I'm wondering if I would too.

I think with this kind of thing you have a gut feeling as to whether you're genuinely into it or not.

You sound quite passive in all this, as if you're excited to play the role of being what he views as sexy more than you are about actually being into it yourself?

Don't lose yourself in this role. It's a slippery slope if you aren't sure you're actually into it.

You haven't been with him for that long in the grand scheme, is there a feeling that you always have to be doing more and more 'exciting' stuff to keep up the pedestal of sexy that he's put you on?

*He would now like to turn this into a reality and I'm wondering if I would too. But where do you start?
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By figuring out whether YOU want to be intimate with a woman, that's where you start. No point working out logistics if you've not given this proper thought.

If you do proceed, please don't pay for a sex worker. I'd recommend Killing Kittens... lots of unicorns 🦄 on there.

May l make 2 important points here?

First of all, women do not exist to be entertainment centres for men. So, as others have said, it should be about what you want, not providing a floor show.

Secondly, and related, if you did opt for an all female encounter, it should be something passionate and special on a 1:1 basis. That would be significantly diluted in the presence of another.

Agree with Comtesse. I loved TG and KK parties pre-kids (don't have the energy now) but it was something I drove and not just for another man's pleasure.

Using sex workers isn't something I'd ever suggest. How would you know there is no trafficking or coercion?

tell him ok - but you'd like to see him with another bloke first