Boyfriend only wants oral

[Scte]

I (25F) have been dating my bf (45M) for a couple months now. We see each other pretty regularly and give each other oral every time. Now I enjoy this, he makes me finish multiple times so I’m not completely unsatisfied but recently we’ve been having penetrative sex less. Sometimes we don’t have penetrative sex at all, only oral. When we first started seeing each other he had some issues staying hard while having sex and I don’t think I reacted in the best way (acted a little distant afterwards) which probably made the problem worse. I can’t help but feel like there’s something wrong with me though. Is this normal? How can I approach this without hurting his feelings?

@Scte it’s always about communication and understanding. I would just go with the flow and not get frustrated with the situation. It’s always about sexuality, sensuality, lust and being a beautiful person with the upmost respect for your lover.

As we know the human body is a complex machine coupled with emotions, it needs time occasionally.

Just feel the love and embrace what’s infront of you 🙏

@Mouse1007
Couldn't have said it better myself. Thank you :)

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I’m very sorry to say that there is a distinct possibility that because you were unsympathetic to his ED problem, he may not want to risk PIV with you again

@AnotherOldGeezer

I’m very sorry to say that there is a distinct possibility that because you were unsympathetic to his ED problem, he may not want to risk PIV with you again

That would be fair.

I think older guys struggle to get hard and stay hard.
Are you happy not to have PIV very often/if ever?
I enjoy giving and receiving oral sex, but personally I couldn't be happy with no PIV as part of my sex life. I find it so intimate.

Have you posted about this before op

@Inthesameboatatmo

Have you posted about this before op

There's a much longer thread in relationships by the op on the same topic. It's not going well. People (men) are more sympathetic to the situation on the sex board.

@BPdanny.
Ah ok, thought I had read before.

If a man eats healthy, exercises, not to much alcohol and has never smoked. Then should be no problem way into his 50’s.

I think the best think to do is as I posted @Scte. Only you know your partner and please do not over think this. Take the lead, be adventurous and keep everything totally alive and keep it spontaneous. Like all loving relationships it’s always about love & respect for each other. X

If a man eats healthy, exercises, not to much alcohol and has never smoked. Then should be no problem way into his 50’s

That's absolutely not correct Mouse hereditary high blood pressure is often the cause of ERD.