Cum too quickly then lose interest

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This probably doesn’t sound like a problem but does anyone find that if they are in mood for sex, generally they cum quite quickly then straight away lose interest?!

I either can’t be arsed at all or if I’m in the mood it’s over for me quite quickly! I obviously finish him off then but I find I don’t wanna carry on myself!

Any tips to keep going?!

I have no advice as such , but my ExW was similar, she liked oral and for me to finish inside her, but if she came first then she couldn’t really continue with PIV, so was all about the timing, which could be tricky

Orgasms aren't everything to me and I can certainly loose interest before I cum sometimes, even if I was in the mood to start with.
Do you mean tips on how keep going for your partner or for yourself?

That's an interesting question, from a woman. With men it's normal.

I've had a number of multi-orgasmic partners, and the first time they came was just the beginning. After say 5 or 6 they might ask me if I wanted to cum, but that was probably politeness. If I said no, cum again, they usually could.

They complained about walking straight afterwards, but to me that was a compliment.

I’m the same. Could happily turn over and go straight to sleep after orgasm. Would love to know the answer.

@Estherpologist tips to keep going for both really! My partner is fine either way but I’m sure there is a way to extend it out like stopping & starting again etc but @PinkiOcelot I’ve yet to find an answer either!

You don't have to orgasm quickly, surely?

I always loved the feelings before, they could have gone on for as long a time possible as far as I was concerned and it didn't matter if I did not orgasm, I still felt satisfied.

Change position and delay it. The emotional feelings, waist upwards, are marvellous.

wifes the same, once shes blown she cant let me touch her nipples or clit and shes too sensitive so im not sure how to get her to let me carry on for further orgasms, she came twice from PIV in the past back to back but usually its from oral as a general rule (her prefered way)

Stopping seems the way forward - have you tried it yet? Or different positions that don't get you a result as quickly? Standing up, or both on your sides?