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What makes a man good in bed?

38 replies

SxWmn · 27/06/2021 09:04

For me:

Someone who loves kissing, I love passionate kissing before and during sex.

Someone who spends time exploring, teasing and pleasuring your body, leading you to orgasm.

Whispering during sex, ie, you look amazing/you feel amazing.

Eye contact.

After, not just rolling over but someone who puts their arms around you and kisses you again.

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cookiecreampie · 27/06/2021 09:38

I think the best sex is when both people are into it and there's a connection. My husband is really passionate from kissing to intercourse and that's one of the things I liked about him from the start. He was always just really into me and it showed.

Original poster
SxWmn · 27/06/2021 10:08

Yes definitely need the chemistry and enthusiasm there.

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Annwen · 27/06/2021 10:19

A lovely passionate snog as he's ejaculating inside me has always been my favourite and almost always brings me to orgasm within seconds as well.

MisterT373 · 27/06/2021 18:58

@SxWmn

5 out of 5

Back of the net.....

Original poster
SxWmn · 27/06/2021 20:37

[quote MisterT373]@SxWmn

5 out of 5

Back of the net.....[/quote]
Hmm

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EvenMoreFuriousVexation · 01/07/2021 10:20

The ability to listen and take direction. That's literally it. (and of course the same goes for women)

Vegiepatchy · 01/07/2021 11:03

For me, I think my lover is amazing....because... Firstly, basic sexual chemistry, then, in no particular order, emotional connection, SUPER considerate (this is THE most important characteristic), generous, in touch with his own sexuality, has great skill, can take direction, extremely intuitive, open minded/adaptable, compassionate.

me4real · 05/07/2021 04:24

Being able to go for quite a while in penetrative sex. Simples.

And no pressuring me to do things I don't want to do or when I don't want it etc.

PinotPony · 05/07/2021 09:36

Chemistry and connection.

Being considerate and generous.

Taking his time to figure out how my body and mind work. Paying attention to cues.

Communicating openly and honestly.

Adventurous and up for trying new things.

Able to laugh when it goes wrong. 😂

SpottyBlueTeacup · 05/07/2021 09:50

This is making me cry. I never had this with my husband (10 years older) and was so naive and innocent that I didn’t realise what I was missing out on 😢

Vegiepatchy · 06/07/2021 08:44

@PinotPony love your list, totally agree. And love a lover that can do the deed long enough to get me to the point of squirting and flooding 😉😅 but hey let’s not go THERE again 🧐🙄😂😂

Snow234 · 06/07/2021 13:43

For me it has to be for him to go down before he goes up, or during or both.

Also lots of kissing especially before any foreplay and after the deed and not worry about checking the football scores or reading the f1 news straight after. Just to be there for me. One on one. Forget the world for a bit.

isitsummertimeyet · 06/07/2021 14:50

listening, not just getting there own needs done.

I always wanna make sure the wife is completely ready and begging for me to be inside her, until then ill happy use fingers tongue toys whatever, till that happens, often than not, she will come before ive even gotten in her so the PIV is just a end game for us for me to have some fun.

IsItJustMeOrYou · 07/07/2021 09:30

Being open minded

JustAnotherOldMan · 07/07/2021 12:50

For me it has to be for him to go down before he goes up, or during or both.

Umm, not sure I understand this….,

PinotPony · 07/07/2021 13:57

@JustAnotherOldMan

For me it has to be for him to go down before he goes up, or during or both.

Umm, not sure I understand this….,

It would be a forcible man who could get his mouth and his cock down there at the same time! 😂
Isthisitforever · 07/07/2021 14:32

@PinotPony Where do you get one of those from? 😂

everywhichway · 07/07/2021 15:09

A&E I would think.

SirenSays · 07/07/2021 15:13

Agree with @pinotpony list 💕

I'll add a man who know how to grind rather than a jackhammer. An adventurous side, kinks and fantasies and a sexcellent toy box.

JustAnotherOldMan · 07/07/2021 15:48

It would be a forcible man who could get his mouth and his cock down there at the same time! 😂

I was quite flexible as younger man, but never to that degree.., and certainly not these days, i would need a tongue like an Anteater to perform that particular trick..

PinotPony · 07/07/2021 17:31

I meant flexible not forcible but I suppose that could apply too... 😂

Strawberriesandcream3 · 11/07/2021 11:09

Someone who can make my mascara run 😁

PostmanPatandhiscat · 11/07/2021 13:55

My bloke I’m with now is rubbish in bed . Hence why we are parting ways coz I can’t cope with it anymore . I’m gagging for a proper sex life again .

I think trust and a connection outside the bedroom makes inside so much better .
I can’t remember what good sex is but I know being able to express what you like is important . Lots of intimacy , and a mixture of nice long sessions and quickies to keep your relationship going .

Catullus5 · 13/07/2021 19:51

What makes him rubbish?

Inthesameboatatmo · 15/07/2021 12:08

Someone you feel comfortable enough with to let go and dont worry about awkwardness.
Also a man who
cares about giving pleasure to his sex partner and doesnt rush anything .

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