Although Ive been married, got 3 kids and had multiple parnters with whom ive jad sex with ive never actually enjoyed or initiated any of the sex. I find men attractive. But I dont desire to have sex witb them. I could quite happily never have sex again. Im single and loving it! I have just finished a fwb situation because I wasnt keen on sex, we are good friends and we would snuggle on the couch and it would sometimes go further, i didnt say no, but at the same time I didnt really get any enjoyment out of it. Nothing at all to do with how he performed, just I dont lime doing it. Does that make me asexual??