How to introduce sex toys?

[CoconutGal]

OH has never used sex toys in previous sexual relationships. I would like to bring some into foreplay. I'm fully aware that OH doesn't want them used on him but I'd like him to feel comfortable using them on me during foreplay. How do I introduce this?

You say “look what l’ve got”.

"Let's try this!"

Have a conversation about which one you would like to try together and learn together by experimenting. Maybe you could try it out first by yourself and then show him how you like it to be used.

OP - be aware, it’s better if “you drive” and he holds you. Men are often useless in finding the right spot pressure etc.

@StarlightLady

OP - be aware, it’s better if “you drive” and he holds you. Men are often useless in finding the right spot pressure etc.

This. Although I like to think I'm not completely useless .

Or have him hold the toy and direct his hand, so he sees and feels how to use it.