Genital Piercings

[SlightlyDifferent]

Man looking for the opinions of women or the experiences of men.
I have a Prince Albert piercing - look it up if you don't know - I love having it and it slightly improves my sexual pleasure, not much but enough to make it worthwhile. I can wear quite large jewellery in it but generally don't because I don't enjoy the tugging that the extra weight causes, so I usually wear a small smooth ring.
Previous partners have not liked the idea and have strongly preferred me to take it out before sex which surprises me with the small ring I think it would be difficult to feel and unlikely to give either pain or pleasure to them. One partner was worried about her teeth when giving me oral.
Anyway, I'm now looking for a new partner. What would be your reaction to finding that your new potential bed-mate has a ring there / what has been your experience in this situation?

I've never had experience of this before, however I would be keen to find out if it improved my sensations during PIV. It wouldn't bother me giving oral provided it had been cleaned prior.

I don’t have a penis but ouch, did it hurt?
Personally, I would worry about it catching inside me, so would ask you to remove it, otherwise I don’t think I’d be able to relax.

Yeah it hurts but really not all that much and only for a very short time. I diy'd it which is tricky to do as the body screams out 'no'. It gives a big endorphin rush. It heals quite quickly and once it has is no trouble at all. I never take mine out except a couple of times for MRI scans.

Lots of different types of jewellery available but it's pretty much all surgical stainless steel or titanium and all very clean.

The ring I wear is relatively small compared with some and it really can't catch on anything, although I suppose there would be a small risk if the woman had a coil.

True about the coil, my DP could feel the thread from my coil during sex sometimes.
I would be open with the woman about the piercing and ask if she’s happy for you to keep the piercing in, or take it out whilst having sex.
Why did you have it done anyway, does it increase your pleasure?

I operate a no surprises system and tell any potential new partner in advance and, of course, take it out if they prefer. That's the thing with the type of jewellery I use, it requires a special pair of pliers to get it out so isn't going to happen in the moment. I sometimes switch to a sort of horseshoe ring that has screw-on balls on each end, this is easier to take out.
As to reason, I like the look and there is a small increase in pleasure but not a deal breaker to take it out.

I think some women would be concerned but I think if the reassurance was there, then maybe they’d give it a go with it in, I’d probably try it.

I’d be intrigued and with all that assurance, try it. Re oral, I’d be more worried I’d do you an injury pulling on it or something. Can you clip a little lead on it?

Flesh is surprisingly tough, think leather.
Piercings can 'migrate' out if too close to the edge.
I suppose you could clip a lead onto it but that would be very scary, I wouldn't go for it although I expect there are those that would.
I don't think you could harm me by giving me oral but if I was wearing a big heavy ring it could probably chip teeth.

Totally hate them
Don't see the point

An ex of mine had one, didn't do anything for me and I was nervous about giving oral to him so it's a no from me

I'd be worried about it damaging condoms.

I've heard that said lots of times and I can't speak from personal experience in that regard but I'd be very surprised if it did. The jewellery is very smooth.

It would be a massive turn off for me. I've always found them gross and would want it removed before sex.

Sorry it just wouldn't work for me. I would not want it inside me and it would put me off oral. Tbh I'd be concerned about hygiene around it, however well washed. I'm afraid it just would not be my thing.

An ex had one, the first and only one I have experienced. I didn’t have a problem with it, I quite liked it as i felt it complemented his large penis. It was horseshoe style and I had no problems with oral and we used condoms for penetrative sex.

I recently slept with someone who had the same piercing, a very smooth ring. I didn't notice any particular difference during penetrative sex and I quite enjoyed giving him oral.

I was surprised as I hadn't expected it but was not worried at all. I have a coil but I can't see how a piercing would get caught on the strings, they're not that long.

He did tell me after that a different piercing (one that was an open ring) caused a previous partner to need internal stitches! So I'll know to avoid that type in future!

Apologies for being off topic, but wouldn't inserting and removing jewellery hurt like holy fucking hell? I have to ask, because I can't look up the subject without wincing.

I'm male, obviously, and I can only say you're a braver man than me

Changing jewellery on a fully healed piercing doesn't hurt at all. Ask anyone who has an ear piercing.

I have pierced ears, but it never occurred to me that a PA would be in any way similar. Thanks for the reply.

Wouldn't bother me.

I guess it's like everything in this world, some will love it others will hate it! Just like some people like tattoos, some don't, some like running, some don't!

I think so long as you keep being honest there's no right or wrong answer!

I've had sex with a couple of guys with PA's I didn't really notice them much apart from a little more "rub" in certain positions.
I had a prepuce piercing for years (clit hood) and often didn't pre-warn because I kinda forgot about it.
I miss it to be honest.