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Never have sex now I'm pregnant?!

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ggggrace · 26/05/2021 12:47

Hey everyone :)

I'm 34 weeks pregnant. In a happy relationship with my partner we've been together 4 years. I'm 23 and he's 24. We weren't trying for a baby but wasn't doing anything to prevent it happening you know?!😂anyway we're both really excited.

I'm just concerned and wondered what everyone else thought... since becoming pregnant we've literally had sex 6 times. Once a month :| I'm not complaining but this is soooo not like us, we're usually very sexually active! He is in the army and I live two hours from his base so I only see him weekends at the moment ( we've recently got a flat of our own where I stay in the week and where he comes back to on weekends/when he gets time off) I just thought it was a bit awkward before because we were at my parents and people just walk in without knocking etc but we've lived in our flat for 2 months now and we've had sex twice! It is hard because he gets back Friday evenings and he's so tired. Saturday we go out and Sunday he's off to work again. I'm just concerned that when baby is here it will be even less! We've both said we're both in the mood we're just genuinely so tired whenever we get into bed!😖
Also I've asked if it's because I'm pregnant and it creeps him out and he said no not at all.

I'm mega insecure so I'm just concerned he's going to get sick of me! Even though I know he won't if that makes sense? Like I know it's just me overthinking as we have the best bond ever and we're literally like best friends! Just wondered if anyone else experienced this? Any advice or? Just needed to get it off my chest!😅

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Vegiepatch · 27/05/2021 12:12

You are probably hormonal so everything feels intense. Don’t worry too much it’s pretty normal to not want sex when u r pregnant and your man might be just being careful with you too.

But also be aware that when Bub comes along both of you will be tired 24/7, so there maybe no sex for ages and that’s ok too.

If it starts to bother either of you, try to keep the communication open between you and make an effort to have date nights where you have family or babysitter mind Bub so you can focus on your relationship as a lot of parents just let parenting take over their life, then wake up 10 years down the track and wonder what happened to their relationship!
Best of luck with your pregnancy how eggciting!

MissConductUS · 02/06/2021 20:59

Lots of men are squeamish about having sex with a pregnant woman because they're afraid they'll hurt the baby somehow. Talk to him about it and reassure him.

jozipozi31 · 03/06/2021 07:33

Reassure him. And personally pregnant sex is the best sex I ever have - it is completely amazing and orgasms beyond perfect. So it's worth talking about it and then doing it!! We did twice a day! I felt it was healthy and good to have the endorphins daily and to keep in touch with my self! And yes it does sometimes give you mild Braxton Hicks but I had the best delivery and I think it's because my uterus was very well looked after!! 😂

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