Harry Potter and oral sex

[Danceswithwhippets]

Bloke here.

I’ve been following the Is there such a thing as a bad blow job thread, which is so good that someone should summarise it, print it, and leave a copy at the foot of my bed. Unless posters like @Beenawhile1 and @TopTips4TopTips have done this already.

Could we have an equivalent thread for women receiving oral please? I could do with some top tips, being hopeful of my sex life reviving itself with the lockdown easing.

I enjoy giving it, and if I have a complaint it’s that women often give zero input at how I’m doing, they expect me to be a mind reader eg lying back silent and rigid without giving advice. And how some women just don’t like it at all, but for others its God’s gift.

A side question, do women giving it to women do it better and if so is it for the obvious reason?

Another side question, what do people call it as an equivalent to blowjob? Cunnilingus sounds like something out of an X rated Harry Potter.

Another vote for no eye contact. It's distracting and unnecessary.

@TopTips4TopTips 👍

18. Occasionally, offer to finger my ass. Inside. Lube or spit first Not for me!

@DiddlyWiddly, have you tried? I only did for the first time last month. Initially if thought no, not for me either, but it was insanely pleasurable.

I’m another one who enjoys a finger or two inserted (in vagina!) at the same time as receiving oral. This is guaranteed to give me an orgasm rather quickly and had to stop DH a few nights ago after only a minute or two of starting oral because it was pushing me over the edge.

I also love gentle sucking and kissing. I don’t like too much pressure, but building it up as I get closer to climax is great.

My DH is incredible at it and I do tell him, during and after. I like to make sure he knows how much I enjoy it. I also love returning the favour and we often do 69 with me on top, his favourite position.

I don’t like eye contact though, it’s just feel weird. Just close your eyes and get on with the job .

have you tried? I only did for the first time last month. Initially if thought no, not for me either, but it was insanely pleasurable
No, I am scarred by my ex who insisted on a finger up there and he wasn’t ‘clean’ 🤢
He was also partial to the classic stick it up the vagina then into the other one ‘by accident’ trick.
I’m very glad to be rid of him.

I think the only way you’re going to know what your partner likes, is by asking them, communication really is key here. So many women like different things, a lot of women’s anatomy’s differ too, some have hooded clitorises and other don’t, myn is small and tucked away, whereas another poster mentioned hers was hooded, so would need to be gently pulled back. Once you find someone you connect to, everything else like being open and honest, should just fall into place.

Loads of nerve endings in the perineum for men and women. Gentle pressure can do amazing things

@DiddlyWiddly

have you tried? I only did for the first time last month. Initially if thought no, not for me either, but it was insanely pleasurable No, I am scarred by my ex who insisted on a finger up there and he wasn’t ‘clean’ 🤢 He was also partial to the classic stick it up the vagina then into the other one ‘by accident’ trick. I’m very glad to be rid of him.

🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 I can understand how off-putting that is!

Personal favorite "eat the cat" 😂

@itsureis

Too tip from me would be to get on your knees at the side of the bed that way you avoid a crick in your neck 😉 If you're good then she might buy you a cushion.

I had a partner who preferred to be on all 4s on edge of bed, with me on my knees, she really liked light pressure on her perineum during oral and the position really worked for her, along with a little teasing of her anus,

@DiddlyWiddly

Too tip from me would be to get on your knees at the side of the bed that way you avoid a crick in your neck Yeah but then you get pain in your knees!!

Face sitting will fix that. And it gives the recipient more control.