How long do you spend on foreplay?

[ChocoholicWineLover]

Just generally, how long do you spend on foreplay?
DH generally spends longer on me, especially if we spend lots of time kissing beforehand and he teases me prior to oral etc and sometimes I’ll play with him, or he’ll play with me whilst we’re giving oral, providing we’re both in the right position.
I normally spend about 15 minutes, that includes giving him oral and kissing him in between. He spends about 20 minutes, quite often longer giving me oral, using fingers, teasing me etc. Then I am literally needing him inside me.

It depends really. We always kiss and touch each other before, now and again we'll spend a bit longer doing other stuff, like a massage that leads to teasing each other, but we've got young kids who wake and get in bed with us, so usually we will spend no more than 5 mins on foreplay before getting down to it.

Depending on which day of the week it is. If we have house to ourselves or not. House to ourselves we will be playing around with foreplay for about 45 minutes.
Weekend morning about 10 minutes each I guess not timed it.
If we have a shower together a couple of minutes each. lol

It depends entirely on how we're feeling. It's not that prescriptive.

Sometimes we'll be fucking within 2 minutes of him coming through the front door. Sometimes he'll spend literally hours edging me, stopping and coming back to it. (I hate/ love it when he does that!)

It's not unusual for us not to have penetrative sex. There's so many ways to pleasure each other, that actual intercourse isn't always the headline event.

We tend to be like you. maybe ten minutes kissing and touching. We have children so sex isn't always as easy to enjoy as before a family. generally ten minutes on foreplay and five perhaps on the main event. I think couples with no children can on occasion seem to believe sex is an all nighter whereas the reality for couples working full time, kids, etc, 10 minutes once a week is very much normal. I have found after 20 years of marriage we focus less on sex and maybe masturbate solo to release. easier and simpler. We are constantly scared of children hearing us so sex isnt as enjoyable as people think.

Probably around 45 minutes or so, including oral, but it varies.

When l was younger, l used to have a CD player beside the bed. Any new friend in training would be told a CD had to finish playing first. It prevented the over eager.

If we have the time, foreplay is normally around 35-45mins, (we usually start foreplay with oral and focus a lot on oral cos we both enjoy it), but as @PinotPony said, we don’t spend a huge amount of time on penetration, that just tends to be interspersed with the rest of it.

@StarlightLady Were you ever wicked and set it to Repeat All?

About 10-15 mins in total.

Normally kissing, nipple play (both ways), occasionally a little oral and some manual stimulation - essentially until DW is wet enough to enable penetration.