What do you think of whilst masturbating?

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Okay, sorry weird question but I struggle with my thoughts during masturbation.

I either think of one of DH's best friends (WEIRD and have no idea why!) or really inappropriate un-sexy thoughts enter my mind. It's really frustrating.

Any tips?!

Oh dear @withmycoffee, you are making me analyse it. It may be nostalgia and rose-tinted specs, but I was her first and she was my second and we learned together. Very extended love-making, and very deep affection. Thinking about it more, she was in the top two not the top two or three! Perhaps, one day when we’re in adjoining rooms in the old folks home I’ll ask her if she remembers it as I do and to flatter me by giving me a high rating as well.

@Danceswithwhippets - It sounds like you had very good chemistry between you both and had a deep emotional connection.

@Danceswithwhippets

Oh dear *@withmycoffee*, you are making me analyse it. It may be nostalgia and rose-tinted specs, but I was her first and she was my second and we learned together. Very extended love-making, and very deep affection. Thinking about it more, she was in the top two not the top two or three! Perhaps, one day when we’re in adjoining rooms in the old folks home I’ll ask her if she remembers it as I do and to flatter me by giving me a high rating as well.

Oh that sounds so loving! I always wonder why things broke down when people speak so fondly of past loves

@PinotPony

Totally depends on how I'm feeling in the moment but recently it's involved me, DP and a lovely couple with whom we have arranged a post-lockdown date! Rather excited at the thought of four bodies writhing together! 😉

Hope you dont mind me asking but where did you find this other couple? asking for a friend

@Kittykat93 Your name is apt!

We all met on Killing Kittens. My DP had a few dates with her in 2019 before he met me. I met her at a KK social function last summer and we got on really well.

She is bringing along her new fella who hasn't swapped before so he's a bit nervous but the four of us have been chatting on WhatsApp and are getting on like a house on fire!

Trying to persuade them to come with us to a KK party in August but they're going to see how he feels after playing with us before deciding. In the meantime, we've got a group of 6 other friends all going to the party (and all got a great deal on executive rooms at the Thistle Hotel too!) so I'm really looking forward to it. Just need to decide on a dress...

[quote PinotPony]@Kittykat93 Your name is apt!

We all met on Killing Kittens. My DP had a few dates with her in 2019 before he met me. I met her at a KK social function last summer and we got on really well.

She is bringing along her new fella who hasn't swapped before so he's a bit nervous but the four of us have been chatting on WhatsApp and are getting on like a house on fire!

Trying to persuade them to come with us to a KK party in August but they're going to see how he feels after playing with us before deciding. In the meantime, we've got a group of 6 other friends all going to the party (and all got a great deal on executive rooms at the Thistle Hotel too!) so I'm really looking forward to it. Just need to decide on a dress... [/quote]

That sounds so exciting I'm jealous I did look into killing kittens last year but chickened out and as it all went to virtual parties I wasnt sure what they would be like. I hope u all have a fab time!!!

Past sexual experiences that were a major turn on.

I fantasise about all the really dark filthy stuff that i can't do in real life....

@myusernamewastakenbyme

I fantasise about all the really dark filthy stuff that i can't do in real life....

Yes me too.

To get me in the mood I usually either fantasise about people (real ones) I fancy, and create vast imaginative scenarios or my current lover (where I just relive our hot sessions), or read erotic stuff but once I’m in the moment it’s just all about the sensations and nothing else registers.

I just concentrate on the sensation when I'm by myself.

I sometimes masturbate while DP (also masturbating) and I tell each other all sorts of filth - we have a selection of fantasies we both enjoy that we've been honing for the last couple of years