Just looking for an outlet really. after feeling a bit frustrated and sexually rejected recently, and throughout pretty much all my previous relationships, instead of letting it happened again I pushed the nuclear option.
Sex is very important to me, and I have a very high sex drive. I also would guess I have strong sensitivity rejection personality type that I can't remember the name of right now. Partner also has it too. Its led to a lot of problems with me regarding sex because its inevitable rejection will occur, and bf has had some issues with it to leading to a bad spiral down in the past.
So we somehow jointly came up with a 100% sex policy. Whenever, wherever, no questions asked. Now obviously rational context will apply. We both love each other to bits, and there is total trust on both sides that neither of us would take advantage with frequency, or suddenly appearing with weird never spoken of before fetishes lol. We both love sex (like everyone right ? :D), but we're both really sensitive about rejection. Despite being aware of the cycle, even with therapy paid for, the emotions still remain.
So we both somehow ended up kind of agreeing that having sex 100% availability where we could just go up to one another say straight out (hey want to go f*ck? :)) which would lead to a yes was pretty amazing. And that putting in another session when you didn't feel like to have this relief removed was a very easy sell considering i'd rather be having sex than doing a lot of other mundane chores lol.
So long story short, we're trying it!