Fuck boy aftermath

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I got fucked boy'd massively and it even brings out shame in me how I fell for it for so long (over a year).
Is it normal to still feel so angry about it after a year of it happening?
I got sucked in and spat out and sometimes when I think about it I still make excuses for him which will later turn into anger at myself.
Can anyone else relate to this?

I’ve been there OP. It took me 18 months to realise 99% of what came out of his mouth was complete bullshit. I lapped it up like some lovesick puppy, he must have found it all highly amusing. The shame is real.

I’d have to sit on my hands to stop myself replying if he did get in touch again though, despite me knowing he’s a complete piece of shit. The sex was incredible though, it has to be said.

Start from the beginning please. Were you used for sex?

@wizzywig

Start from the beginning please. Were you used for sex?

I'm thinking she was seduced by a way way younger man - like, later teens? And had an outrageous sexual fling while he tried out some of the stuff he'd seen on Pornhub but wouldn't get to do with girls his own age, and then he disappeared as quickly as he'd appeared, leaving her in sobbing tatters, and finding that the 40-something guys at B & Q on a Sunday morning just didn't appeal in the same way any more (or, most likely, appreciate her new skills). ?

She has been fucked over by a fuck-boy. It's a set piece. I think that might be partly why they are called fuck-boys.

You need actually see it for what it was, value the good, discard the rest. It was never going anywhere and you need to face up to that and find a fuck-man instead. There must be stacks out there (when they're not at B & Q : ) ...

I think it's understandable that it still rankles, but what can you do?

I had a fling last year, no massive expectations but a bit disappointing after the event to discover he was a complete player.

That said it was a lot of fun and a great distraction during a pretty shitty time and taught me a lot about what I want in a more long term/sexual partner going forward.

As Parker says, you just have to take the positives and move on (which is very possible btw 😉 😁)

@edwinbear the shame is real!!
I can't even say the sex was good in actual fact it was probably the worst I've ever had.

@Parkerwhereareyou haha your assumptions are partly correct!!

Looking back now I realise he was mirroring my circumstance got me to feel sorry for him and webbed me through bull shit.

We were the same age and yes he did attempt to play out some pornhub viewing.

He hurt me I know that, i blame myself because I allowed it to happen so the anger is partly at him and more so at myself. I was really stupid and naive, my instincts were telling me to stay away but I didn't and I didn't particularly like him but I somehow managed to find myself knee deep. I just don't know how to let it go. I thought I would have processed it by now but his OLD profile showed up and it threw me back.

@CluelessWriter definitely a lesson and one I am on some level grateful for.

He played me. I think that's the bit that angers me. What did he get out of the head fuck?
He constantly lied, why? What did he get from it.
Allot of questions I know I will never get the answers for.

Fearful I'm sorry this has tucked you up but you just need someone else, way better, much cleverer and more mature. And no doubt so much better in bed.

It may be the insult as much as anything that getting you. But you just have to force yourself to drop that. Give up on it. Do not even give him the rather glam and exciting title of fuck-boy.

Think of him as shit-fuck boy.

There you go. Already sounds a lot less appealing, doesn't he? 😀

@Parker
Thank you!!
Shit fuck boy is an absolute perfect definition and you have literally made me lol.
I think you're probably right about it being insulting so should probably check in my ego!
Thank you x

You're very welcome 😉
😀👌

@Parkerwhereareyou

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: D

I think we've got some new coinage here.

Shit fuck boy.

Wow. Feeling proud of us!! : )