Orgasm through clitoral or penetration

[Custardcream67]

Just a light hearted thread. I think the majority of women can (maybe only) orgasm via clitoral stimulation only. I am the opposite and can only orgasm through penetration and never have via clitoral.

Am I a minority in this?

I think you are ... so, you cannot orgasm through clitoral stimulation?

That must be inconvenient with masturbation. ?

Really?

Very rare indeed

@Custardcream67

Man here.

I think other posters are choosing to misunderstand you. I’m sure you can orgasm by masturbating.

I had a long-term partner who orgasmed when masturbating, but when she was by herself and never when we had sex together.

But when having sex she could only orgasm through PIV. She liked receiving oral and being fingered, but could not climax that way and always wanted PIV quite promptly. It meant I had to learn to be very controlled, as she was multi-orgasmic.

She used to joke that when it came to sex she was more like a man than a woman.

Something else unusual about her was that her breasts were not very sensitive, but her back was -she called it her secondary erogenous zone. It led to some interesting bedroom negotiations!

I think you're missing out. The best orgasms come from the clit. There's so many more nerve endings in the clitoris than the vagina. Although I can usually come through penetrative sex, clitoral is so much more intense.

OP, do you mean that you orgasm through penetration with zero clitorial stimulation, ie nothing pressing on it at all, or that you get off through PIV with the usual clit stimulation from penis/partner's pubis?
It would take an age for me to reach orgasm through fingers or oral without PIV, if it happened at all, but give me PIV and multiple orgasms happen . But I don't think I'd actually come without some clit pressure, though with current chap pretty much anything PIV feels like I'm in heaven.

The clitoris extends up near vagina wall doesn’t it?

Too much action directly on clit externally is too sensitive and I’ve never been able to orgasm from that.

I only orgasm from PIV but maybe it’s the slight pressure somewhere which does it. I can’t explain it but maybe the clit is being stimulated but just not externally.

I can make my self orgasm through clitoral but with partner only penetration.

The female sexual nervous system is a complex array of sensations. This nervous system stretches to many parts of the body. The clitoris is the tip of the iceberg (forgive the metaphor) When stimulated the female has sensations in all area's of this nervous system however the part that is being stimulated at that moment in time is where the focus is. I.e. g spot for example or perineum. Though they may not necessarily feel major sensations in the clitoris it is in fact playing its part.

Yes you are in the minority. It's something like 70/30 or 60/40. However, men will often give you a wrong impression of this as I think some of their partners have faked orgasms via penetration and then men haven't been able to tell the difference, thus skewing their perception.

I can do both but penetration is harder to achieve. The angle, level of lubrication, rhythm and duration have to be right for penetration and this is hard to achieve with DH. It is much easier to get a penetration orgasm with a penis sized vibrator on my own and I find these more intense than a clitoris only orgasm. When we have sex, I usually self stimulate to cum (ie rub my clitoris when he is inside me or use a bullet vibrator on my clitoris). The best masturbation for me is a non-working penis sized vibrator with a bulbous end inside and gently pushed in and out slowly and a bullet on my clitoris - this is a wow for me (only achieved when DH is away from home!)

Clitoral and penetration. Both just as intense.

@crystalcherry87

I think you're missing out. The best orgasms come from the clit. There's so many more nerve endings in the clitoris than the vagina. Although I can usually come through penetrative sex, clitoral is so much more intense.

I think you are confusing everyone else's body with your own.

Usually for me it’s only clit stimulation but I have climaxed from piv if the angle is right and the rhythm is consistent. When men pause frequently to delay their climax then that does nothing for me at all.