Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Sex

You need to have been registered for 7 days to post in the Sex forum. Please don’t send unwanted PMs to other users.

Too wet

17 replies

user1486915549 · 28/02/2021 20:12

I have never had this problem before.
I have been with my new partner for 7 months.
The sex is amazing both physically and emotionally.
BUT I now get so wet that it dulls any physical sensation.
Is there anything I can do about it ?

OP posts:
BlackSabbath · 01/03/2021 14:24

This happens to me during period sex, has your partner said he can't feel much or is it just from your POV? Not sure what you could do tbh!

user1486915549 · 01/03/2021 15:04

No, he doesn’t seem worried at all
It’s just me !
I need some product that’s the opposite of lubricant, but maybe no such thing exists.

OP posts:
BlackSabbath · 01/03/2021 15:27

Flour or something? Lol

Sparkybloke · 01/03/2021 15:58

I wouldn't worry. If your partner is happy, satisfying you and enjoying you as you are then go with it! Speaking as a bloke, much better a bit too wet that the opposite.....

goldielockdown2 · 01/03/2021 16:24

I don't know what the answer is OP or if there is one other than going on the pill to change your hormones or something?
Not sure how PP's advice is suitable! As long as your partner is happy...wtf Confused

crystalcherry87 · 01/03/2021 18:27

Just wipe before he goes in.

Whatliesbeneath707 · 01/03/2021 20:07

This is possibly a random suggestion.....
When trying to get pregnant/improve fertility, women are advised to avoid taking anti histamines (for hay fever) because they also have an effect of drying vaginal secretions too!
Would it be worth trying a cheap over the counter anti histamine tablet to see if it reduces excessive secretions?! I know there won’t be any way to regulate this but maybe worth a try 🤷‍♀️

StarlightLady · 02/03/2021 03:17

Just have a small towel to hand to wipe and throw it in the washing machine afterwards.

This is a “problem” some others would like to have.

Longsight2019 · 02/03/2021 06:38

Pause. Wipe both of you. Re-enter for heightened friction.

MrWendel · 02/03/2021 09:20

This really won't be a problem for your DP, so please don't feel self-conscious or anything about it.

Rgy3250999 · 03/03/2021 21:03

I’ve always been quite wet but partners seem to have enjoyed this and the fact it shows you’re turned on and enjoying it too. Better for spontaneous sex too as you don’t need to have lube with you.

NoBetterthanSheShouldBe · 05/03/2021 18:56

Warm bath an hour before sex. Tightens it all up.

Isadora2007 · 06/03/2021 22:50

Sex towels! Handy for spillages afterwards and avoiding the wet patch!!

ZebraSpotts · 17/03/2021 00:15

@MrWendel

This really won't be a problem for your DP, so please don't feel self-conscious or anything about it.
Why's it not an issue from a man's perspective?
TheBlackTower · 17/03/2021 03:51

I didn't think the OP said whether their DP was a man or woman...

TheBlackTower · 17/03/2021 03:52

Ah yes, I see the updated post. In my experience, it's not an issue.

BarbieBrat · 17/03/2021 21:26

I have had this issue a few times and honestly don’t find anything other than a short bathroom break for a wash helps. I’m very open and outright tell my partner (and previous) that I’m nipping off to wash.

Not necessarily a full shower but It makes my skin sore depending where I am in my cycle too if I don’t which ruins it for me. I just use mild water and a touch of soap and then loads more water to thoroughly rinse as you don’t want that hanging around making you sore either. No ones ever raised an eyebrow to it so definitely nothing to worry about or be self conscious over.

The other thing I find makes it seem worse and more irritating is excessive sweating so a couple of fans can help lessen the nit so nice effects even if it doesn’t stop it altogether.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page

This topic prevents users from posting on it until they have been members for at least 7 days.