How to get back our sex life back on track

[wishes1111]

Hi everyone

A few of you may recognise me from my recent thread.

As we are working on our marriage, sex has been a strain.

I have had multiple miscarriages and we have had a very rough few years, I also have endometriosis.

We have been having sex but it's not "sensual" or "exciting" and to me feels like a bit of a chore although I used to thoroughly enjoy sex and he's always satisfied me. I do need a bullet vibrator to be able to orgasm and use this whilst in doggy to finish most times.

As we are working on our marriage, I'd like to get some excitement back. Has anyone got any tips? I am not into hardcore bondage or anything like that (he isn't either) but open to silk ties and different toys etc.

I have used this online questionnaire to find out what my partner might, or might not, be willing to try in our sex lives.

old.mojoupgrade.com/

Each of you answers separately about things you definitely would try, wouldn't mind trying, or definitely would not try from all sorts of different options. If there's something that your partner thinks is off limits, but you'd like to have a go at, they don't get to see what your desires are. This means that there can be no recriminations from your partner about the kind of things you want, but they would find either over the top, or repulsive.

You only get to see the matches, or possible matches about things that appeal to you. This means that you might well surprise each other with some of your hidden desires. Once you know what the other might want to try, you can very simply take it from there.

By the way, it is free to use.

Try something that doesn’t involve actual intercourse.

One of you could be on a bed naked or not wearing much, but is blindfolded, just a scarf will do, the other partner can do anything apart from instigating intercourse

Nice and simple, but can be incredibly exciting