Orgasm via PIV

[cosmicbabe]

A question for the ladies that Orgasm via PIV, do you know how? Does the penis have to hit a certain spot or does the thrusting bring on Orgasm? This may seem like a stupid question but I can only Orgasm via clitoral action. But I see a lot of woman do Orgasm via PIV and I want to know how!

This is assuming you are not also stimulating your clit whilst having PIV.

Thanks

Try going on top, grinding while leaning back. Or leaning forwards while he holds you firmly in place. My DH holds onto my head, not roughly, but firmly and it creates more pressure down there. A large penis helps too.

G spot! Angle is everything! Combination of a slight bend in dp and a tilted uterus for me seems to make everything align beautifully! I actually come easier from piv than oral or fingers! Oh also if he positions just right he rubs my clit while he thrusts too.

I think most women who orgasm from PIV do indeed have some sort of clitoral stimulation at the same time, the in and out action alone with no attention to the clit is not enough for most women. The vagina hardly has any nerve endings in it, or else childbirth would be 10x more painful than it already is! That's why mother nature has given us a bundle of nerves just a bit further up from the birth canal. Of course I'm generalising here, there will be some who can come from simple in and out action. I can orgasm within 5 minutes of PIV but my clit is very sensitive, so any grinding or bumping action gets me there fairly quickly. Women are all different, some can't orgasm at all, for some it takes 30 minutes of oral, for some it takes 2 minutes of using a vibe, for some it takes 5 minutes of PIV. Dont compare yourself to anyone else, as long as you can get there and you know how to do it, that's all that matters :)

However the clitoris has over 8000 nerve endings!

I think it's a different type of orgasm. Clitoral is more of a build up a huge release. Penetrative orgasm is more a feeling of pressure that feels pleasurable and then gets more and more intense until it reaches a peak.

Thanks for the feedback.

Currently I fall in the takes 30 minutes with a partner bracket but this is improving. Alone no problem.

However I may try some different angles so my clit gets some action whilst partner is in me. I've heard a pillow under the bum helps too.

It has he be me on top for me to cum like that 🙂

@cherrypop86

Try going on top, grinding while leaning back. Or leaning forwards while he holds you firmly in place. My DH holds onto my head, not roughly, but firmly and it creates more pressure down there. A large penis helps too.

Quick grinding or slow?

I can on top or in missionary and as previous posters have said from a grinding type movement.

In missionary ask dp to thrust in a sort of up / down motion rather than in/out and be slightly forward of your pelvis which will improve stimulation..

For some pressure on G spot works so maybe try spooning and position so that the thrusting aims to hit your g spot rather than cervix.

Or missionary where he is below you so again his cock is thrusting upwards

I've always tended to cum when the guy ejaculates inside me - the feeling of that usually sends me over the edge, even if I've already orgasmed through oral, etc. Even if he's wearing a condom I can normally feel the different kind of 'pulsing' when he's cumming and that does it for me. Best position to get me to orgasm is doggy, when he's hitting my G-spot directly, but I have cum in many positions from the ejaculation thing. Guess I'm just lucky really!

How nice must it be to potentially have the choice of two types of orgasm. I've heard a clitoral orgasm to be a stabbing sensation whereas a vaginal is more a spreading one.

@MisterT373 The way I'd describe the difference is that a clitoral orgasm is more concentrated 'down there' whereas a vaginal orgasm is much more a whole body thing. Both are great, but vaginal can be fantastic

Has to be from the grinding motion mentioned above for me, most times when hes on top and about half the time if I'm on top. I dont even know if I have a g spot I suspect not but like a pp my clit is also very sensitive so if it gets some stimulation from the piv action all is well. And being really turned on is a must too.

I tried everything over the years and nothing gets me even remotely close - tried every position, angle, movement, pressure, speed, technique - nothing.

I need a vibrator directly on my clit or at least 30 mins of intense oral to get there - nothing else worked.

For me the thrusting can do it..I do like when he is fully inside and pressing on my cervix which makes me feel full and stretched.

Clitoris is always great but can make it very quick

@MrsTombliboo Trying to have an orgasm is a bit like trying to get to sleep - the more you try the less likely it is. Try concentrating not on yourself but on him inside you and just the thought of him loving you from inside out, and that amazing moment when he ejaculates. That's what does it for me, almost every time.

I can have it easily on top but lean over so you are close enough to kiss, and the penis is fully in but I'm still moving up and down with it fully inside, that plus nipple twisting and it takes me 5 mins and this is coming from years of never orgasming in sex at all. Once you get the technique it gets easier and easier it seemed for me anyway

[quote Annwen]@MrsTombliboo Trying to have an orgasm is a bit like trying to get to sleep - the more you try the less likely it is. Try concentrating not on yourself but on him inside you and just the thought of him loving you from inside out, and that amazing moment when he ejaculates. That's what does it for me, almost every time.[/quote]
Done all that - there is just no pleasurable feelings that could even remotely lead to orgasm unless my clit is directly, continuously and firmly stimulated for a long time - 30 mines plus generally. PIV no matter the position or grinding or angle or alignment technique gives it anything like the right or sufficient pressure to lead to orgasm.

I've had 3 orgasms through PIV - the last one was over 10 years ago

So frustrating as I can still remember he feeling 😬😬

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