AIBU to be annoyed at this

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Bf has been "joking" about me shaving my legs etc, the worst it gets is stubble, never more than 3 days worth. This eve he basically said before my shower not to forget to shave, cheeky f-er but anyway i took that as... fun time is on tonight. So i did.

I was up early this morn so 9:30pm ish i say shall we go up, he says yes give me 5 and i will be up, hour later i finally go down to see if hes fallen asleep which he had.

Bearing in mind i was shattered but stayed awake thinking he would be coming up any min. Instagram made the time go quicker but ntp.

AIBU to be annoyed?

Also sex has become allll about him, he doesnt make an effort and you can forget me coming close to finishing. Im worried it will cause resentment.

Its not a subject i am overly confident about discussing either.

The sex being all about him is the only think that would bother me.
I expect my men to do some manscaping and I really don't like hairy balls so in return I keep myself hair free also. We all get tired from time to time too.
But his selfishness isn't right. Can you talk to him and tell him what you would like?

Urgh I wouldn’t be impressed with any of that, does he shave anywhere other than his face? The bigger issue is leaving you unsatisfied in bed, I would be talking to him more about that and setting some expectations that he gets you off first.

YANBU.

If I was him I'd grow a nice stubbly bear then go down on you.

I can kind of see both sides. I think he may be overbearing if you're talking about a bit of stubble, but at the same time it's nice to make effort for a partner and show you still care about them finding you attractive and vice versa.

You could 'joke' back, that there's no point in you shaving if he's not going to play till you orgasm anyway

Sounds like you need to have a frank discussion and both communicate about your needs and desires a bit more. If you don't speak up how will you ever instigate the change required to ensure you a fully satisfied. Similarly he might have a few changes to implement too. This is how relationships work, niggle, communication, compromise, cure.
Hope you are soon on the path to a more fulfilling time.