I met a man few months ago. Our relationship is very sexual. At the beginning I liked it (first few times). He is very rough in sex and I thought I am the same. We do a lot of deep throat, anal, light spanking... and he usually wakes me up during night few times to have more. I didn’t mind first few nights, but I’m finding myself overwhelmed when he is coming over (or going to his). I also keep ending up with injuries (first time infection, second time ripped skin under my tongue, third time pain in my bum area). I had conversation with him if we can slow down many times. I also said that maybe we can date without sex for a little bit, but it didn’t happen. I sometimes tell him “no” during the sex and he still pushes me into it (I give in). Otherwise he is great. We have lot of in common, he is really interested in me, brings me presents all the time, flowers etc. Not sure if you have any advice ?! I almost feel abused in the bedroom (but because we agreed on rough sex prior I feel responsible)