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I squirted... I think?

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JamesBeBlunt · 30/12/2020 21:44

So, first time with new partner last night. During foreplay he had his fingers inside me and was right inside and moving fast and hard. Well, I basically pissed the bed!!
I could feel it gushing out-such a weird sensation!
Did I squirt or just pee? How do you know the difference? The poor guy had to change the bed. I was quite embarrassed. Do guys like when women do this?
So many questions!

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BubblyBarbara · 07/01/2021 19:00

Well, I basically pissed the bed!!

Correct.

SirGawain · 07/01/2021 19:59

@omg23

I need advice. This happened to me tonight when masturbating (cringe) but the fluid was lots of fresh blood. I take the Pill Cerazette & took it late a few days ago but no other bleeding has occurred. I have a fit male gp obviously can't talk to him, in fact too shy to discuss it with anyone.

Of course you can discuss it with you GP. He’s a professional and has heard it all before. Years ago I had a suspected torsion, I didn’t get embarrassed or coy discussing it with several female doctors, (GP and Hospital).

thegreenestbear · 09/01/2021 20:34

I squirt a lot and get really embarrassed. I've tried not drinking anything all day but it doesn't stop it.

Does anyone know if you can stop it?

LetsGoToTheHills · 07/02/2021 21:36

This has just happened to me today for the first time ever (I'm 41). New partner, same stimulation as OP. Knew it had happened from the splashing sound! Definitely wasn't peeing as that feeling is entirely different.

onemorerose · 07/02/2021 23:37

Apart from the poster above with the blood (which I would get checked out if it was me) it is absolutely my favourite sexual experience. It’s not pee, it doesn’t smell like pee at all (even when you don’t change the sheets straight away 😂) and it feels amazing to be so horny and stimulated and able to release like that. It’s what I imagine a man coming must feel like, the build up and then the release. Enjoy OP and previous posters

JustAnotherOldMan · 08/02/2021 11:14

I’ve only been in one relationship with a woman who could squirt, used to Love it, when she was on top,

I miss the sex with her

Nevercastaclout · 10/02/2021 08:20

Squirting is weeing. I heard a doctor on a podcast (things we can't talk about on tv...I think) explain it.

CarolVordermansBum · 10/02/2021 10:26

@Nevercastaclout

I used to squirt all the time until I had an operation to fix my leaky bladder. Coincidentally I stopped pissing myself during excersise and coughing etc too 🤔

CarolVordermansBum · 10/02/2021 10:41

Also bladders are never completely empty, they are constantly filling with urine. Even after urinating the bladder can still contain about 50 militires of urine.

LetsGoToTheHills · 10/02/2021 11:50

People seem very adamant one way or the other. Could it be treat for some people it is per and others it isn't?

CarolVordermansBum · 10/02/2021 12:08

All I know is

Before ever getting pregnant - couldn't squirt

After pregnancy and giving birth vaginally - could squirt easily

After operation to tighten things up - can't squirt

Nevercastaclout · 10/02/2021 12:10

It’s another one of those things that men see on porn and therefore expect women to do. Like anal sex - porn actors have enemas and stretch their anuses with implements in preparation & bleach their anuses.

LetsGoToTheHills · 10/02/2021 12:38

@LetsGoToTheHills

People seem very adamant one way or the other. Could it be treat for some people it is per and others it isn't?

Sorry. I meant could it be that it is pee for some people and not for others?

LittleBoPeep95 · 10/02/2021 12:40

Well most reputable studies conclude that it is urine, so probably not

PinotPony · 10/02/2021 16:53

Urea and creative are usually in very low levels in female ejaculate. Plus it contains prostate specific antigen which you wouldn't find in pee.

In my experience it doesn't look, smell or feel like peeing.

PinotPony · 10/02/2021 16:58

@Nevercastaclout

Given the number of accounts from women who've surprised themselves by squirting, I highly doubt they were being pressured to do it by a porn-obsessed man.

And, whilst anal does feature heavily in porn, there's plenty of women who enjoy it and use anal toys during masturbation.

CarolVordermansBum · 10/02/2021 17:23

@PinotPony

No it didn't look or smell like urine when I did it. But Urine is often more pale or clear rather than yellow, especially if you are healthy and well hydrated. And urine doesn't always smell either, it depends how concentrated it is.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25545022/#:~:text=Conclusions%3A%20The%20present%20data%20based,the%20emitted%20fluid%20often%20exists.

onemorerose · 10/02/2021 20:45

Could there be some age or experience element in it? I first squirted about 6 years after my first child, but I was in a more confident place mentally, physically and sexually than I’d been my whole life.

I’ve read that there are traces of urine in it, I’m not disputing that. But it’s definitely not ‘just’ pee. So what else is it?
It feels amazing to me anyway and doesn’t smell so I’ll continue to seek and enjoy it.

blubberball · 21/02/2021 00:25

I had this again tonight, and had to wash the sheets. The sex was amazing, but I find the clean up afterwards a bit embarrassing.

1stSquirt · 21/02/2021 09:03

NC for this. Sorry a lot of TMI here...
Been with my DH since we were teens. Only ever slept with each other. Both in our forties now and still enjoy a very active sex life.
Dh knows how to please me and I orgasm 99% of the time.

Last night was the first time I've ever squirted.
I had a wee before sex.
I was extremely turned on, on my hands and knees width ways on the bed, sucking and wanking while he was fingering me. I felt a build up, then a massive gush as I came. It felt as though it was coming from my vagina rather than my urethra.
Afterwards I needed another wee.
When we got back into bed I smelled the sheets, no colour, no smell.
Dh was well pleased with himself.
It's like we've unlocked a new level

LetsGoToTheHills · 23/02/2021 11:06

@1stSquirt

NC for this. Sorry a lot of TMI here... Been with my DH since we were teens. Only ever slept with each other. Both in our forties now and still enjoy a very active sex life. Dh knows how to please me and I orgasm 99% of the time. Last night was the first time I've ever squirted. I had a wee before sex. I was extremely turned on, on my hands and knees width ways on the bed, sucking and wanking while he was fingering me. I felt a build up, then a massive gush as I came. It felt as though it was coming from my vagina rather than my urethra. Afterwards I needed another wee. When we got back into bed I smelled the sheets, no colour, no smell. Dh was well pleased with himself. It's like we've unlocked a new level

Exactly the same here- emptied my bladder (normal amount of pee so none 'missing' as it were) very soon after squirting during sex.

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