In the very distant past I used to go on chat rooms with a web cam and enjoy ‘chatting’ to total strangers that way. It was quite an eye-opener for me, and also revealed to me a lot about myself I did not know. However that was very many years ago.
Me and DH have found things a little stale of late, and I think his libido has become a bit low. We were discussing spicing things up, and also discussing fantasies. A close female friend (actually our next-door neighbour, though DH does not know this) had tried swinging, which got me thinking. DH seemed invigorated by the fantasy of swinging including watching me with another man.
However, I am not at all sure how he would cope with the reality ‘in the flesh’.
It therefore made me think about chatrooms and webcams etc and whether that was a safer way to explore these things together. Has anyone experience of dipping their toes in the water that way? I really like the idea of watching and being watched again, and used find it hugely addictive, and it seems a much less threatening way of exploring these things with DH, but I am not at all sure how to go about it these days, nor indeed how to introduce the idea to DH.
Sorry if this is all a little tentative, and I realise there are people who are much more experienced and perhaps much more confident in their relationships than me.