Females with High Sex Drives!

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So I’ve thought about this for a long time and wondered what others opinions were. I am a female in my 30’s, I have admittedly always had a relatively high sex drive.
Of all the females I know and various threads I’ve come across on the different forums, many females admit to having a low sex drive and not wanting sex. I’ve never had the confidence in RL to admit to friends that I in fact have a high sex drive because I feel a sense of shame about how they would view me. I don’t know why I feel this way, does anyone else feel this as a female?
I was raised in a pretty sheltered/strict environment, sex was never spoken about at home, which could be why I feel some shame about feeling the way I do.

I think we need to be told a little more.

Does this go back to the “nice girls don’t do that sort of thing” attitude? Are you happy with your own sex life? If the answer is yes, then l would relax.

I have no shame admitting I have a high sex drive. If someone was to look down on me for it, that says more about them than me IMO

@MrsFluffyMuff - Exactly - . It’s healthy.

Yes..I think probably have a high sex drive although not sure how you measure it.. I didn't start young or anything but as I experienced different things which I enjoyed and also found enjoyment making my then partners happy it seemed better and better.

Tiredness does impact though on my drive but what I find then is I wake up in the morning and feel a need so DH has a nice awakening as he describes it!

Despite a high sex drives, I still want/need variety though

I have a high sex drive and unfortunately it is totally out of synch with my DH. I'm not in the slightest bit ashamed of it - but life would be easier if it wasn't the case.

I've known women with both high and low sex drives the reasons vary from the stresses of everyday life to the physical to the emotional.
IMO a woman has to overcome any fear, shame or guilt to have a good sex life. Whether she has low or high sex drive. Too many women are inhibited!!

How do we measure what's high ? I think Mine is high because of a constant need ( throughout the day), getting grumpy , irritable and unable to concentrate when I've not had it for a while . But how do I know this is out of the realms of Normal?

Mine coincides with my cycle ... in my forties not on any hormones. After period week, my sex drive goes though the roof 🤣 then a week before time of the month not too fussed ☺️

I have a high drive and Iv never felt ashamed of it.

I mean if you’re surrounded by females that don’t think sex is important and often say they can go without it.
Would you feel comfortable telling them that you’re different and think it’s important and you want it frequently, would you feel they judged you?

I don’t think l would feel judged. But l would wonder what exactly they were not getting from it. I would make an exception for the current pandemic, because sex and stress don’t fit well together.

If they judged me for it, they wouldn't be my friends for long.

I think you have to know your audience. I'm fortunate to have a close circle of friends who I've known since we were teenagers. Whenever conversation turns to my kinky exploits, there is much laughter and a fair few shocked faces but I've never felt judged. They know that's just me and how I choose to live my life, even if they're happy with the missionary position once a week. We're all different and that's perfectly ok.

It's interesting that society regards overtly sexual behaviour in women as being "bad", something to be ashamed of and discouraged. If my friends shared that view, I'd probably try to engage them in a discussion about it. I certainly wouldn't shy away from having that conversation and challenging their beliefs.

I certainly would not be ashamed of either a high, or low, sex drive. It's a bit like height: why would anyone be ashamed of being either tall, or short? We have no control over our height. We simply are what we are, and we ought to accept what we are (and what other people are) and just get on with making the best of the hand we have been dealt.

It's not a bad thing..I'm considering having a male harem..I'm sick of the double standards. Also have a high sex drive and enjoy sex and my sensuality