Is it normally amazing for the other person too?
I’ve been seeing a man for around 6 months and we have the most amazing sex. I’ve only been with 3 other people, was married for a decade and am mid 30’s. I’ve never really been that into sex of that makes sense. I wasn’t averse to it and thought I had a perfectly healthy sex life with exdh. I didn’t often orgasm with exdh but I still enjoyed it at the time and I never really thought of it as a chore or anything like that, I just never really got excited at the thought of it.
With my mew partner I just can’t stop thinking about shagging him, all the time 
. We only see each other every 10 days or so as we live a distance apart and I’m finding it incredibly frustrating.
But anyway, I’m now wondering if maybe he doesn’t think sex with me is amazing. Maybe he thinks of it as how I thought of it when I was with exdh - just something you did to pass the time. I think I make him happy sexually but I have no idea if I do to him what he does to me iyswim. I guess I’m just asking if you’ve ever been with someone who keeps telling you that the sex you have is incredible and you’re just sat there thinking ‘is it? I thought it was pretty average’.
And yes, I know I’m overthinking it. But I’m not going to see him until the mew year now and I can’t spend all that time daydreaming about shagging him. I might as well start worrying that he doesn’t particularly enjoy shagging me instead 