I can't give a blow job!

[Sally3388]

I find it really hard giving a blow job, I can't ever get the technique right, or keep up with what I'm doing. I get really anxious so I admit I do give up easily. This is more to do with me and my confidence.

Any tips appreciated. Just to add I do really enjoy it. I just get confused with the whole licking/sucking/ tongue action. I have no idea what I'm doing.

Ive never given my current partner of 2 years a proper blow job, where he has finished, obviously I'd really like too.

I'd agree in advance with your partner where he should cum....if you don't like the taste then make sure he lets you know and finishes somewhere else. Other than that there is no right or wrong....remember that the most sensitive area is at the tip so focus there....tongue around the tip is good. A hand around the shaft can be nice.......I am sure he will guide you. Some men like their balls gently massaged at the same time....I do....but others may not...go gently and I'm certain what ever you do will be just fine....

Unfortunately cocks don't come with. a Haynes manual! Different strokes for different folks... 😂

BJs aren't just a case of doing the same thing constantly until he cums. Mix it up. Kisses, licking up and down the shaft, running the tip of your tongue over and around the head, putting it in your mouth (as little or much as you're comfortable)... remember the head is often the most sensitive part so you don't have to deep throat if you don't want to.

Be cheeky... eye contact... if you need a rest, just stop and smile at him. 😉

Use your hands too... sliding up and down whilst simultaneously using your mouth on him. Stroking and gently squeezing balls. Running fingers over his perineum. Stroking his bum.

There's soo much you can do. Have fun exploring what you both like.

I suspect you are overthinking this.

Think ice lolly! And don’t take him in beyond your comfort zone.

You can feel the pulsation change just prior to ejaculation, then take him in as far as you comfortably can (you can use your hand to guide to the right point) and it will just flow straight down.

Important: Make sure you get your turn.

As someone who has been on both ends of a blow job, may I add my 2 cent's worth?

If I receive, then the best ones are all about the mouth and the hands should only be involved in caressing the twins, so to speak. For me, hands on the shaft detract from the sensations of the mouth and tongue working on me. A hand job is a hand job, and there ought to be no crossover between one and a decent blow job.

Of course, one man's meat (no pun intended) is another man' poison.

@xpc316e - I appreciate where you are coming from, l prefer to give a blowie hands free or holding hands. But if someone feels that they still have their L plates on, a hand on the shaft can help keep the depth comfortable.