Fab Threesome??

[Stealthynamechange]

hi all
So after the breakdown of my relationship ive signed up to fab. I dont want to date but have needs.
Im thinking of meeting a couple for a threesome. Never done anything like this before. What do i need to know??

Are you male or female? Usually makes contact a couple on fab and there is a lot more males than couples or woman! It's not something to walk into lightly. Obviously making contact and chatting and then a social us a must to see if all parties are at ease and an attraction.

Im female, bit worried about safety of meeting tbh i always think axe murders!!

@Stealthynamechange

Im female, bit worried about safety of meeting tbh i always think axe murders!!

Yes it is quite scary that is why you should always chat first via message kik or what's app though I wouldn't give my number to anyone on fab at first. Then facetime then a social at a time and place where you feel safe. We meet men from fab and haven't had any scary moments although DH is with me. Always follow your gut instinct.

Always do a social meet first. Preferably where you feel comfortable.

Thanks all

OP,
I agree with all the previous posters. Kik is a great way to stay anonymous, and send face pictures, but you can't video call any more, so that requires WhatsApp, which can be a bit of a leap...

Definitely arrange a "social only" meet first, although maybe in a hotel, so that if the mood and chemistry is right...

Also try Killing Kittens (Ha! beat you to it @pinotpony! ), as that is female led, and you wont get loads of random guys trying it on, or sending you photos of their bits..

I'm (perhaps obviously) a man, but if I'm on both sites, so if you would like a male, pm me.

Sorry, meant male perspective...

It is right, of course, to consider personal safety. However, I think the axe murderers will just pounce randomly out of the shadows when you are walking home; they are unlikely to use web sites, etc.

What I would be very careful of is people being what they claim to be. Plenty of people will be 100% genuine, but there will be a proportion of fakes and fantasists out there. Their intention may not be to chop off your head, but you still would not want to get involved with them.

As a lone woman willing to get involved with a couple, you are an incredibly rare and valuable thing - so make sure you are treated accordingly.

Good luck.

@AverageGuy Dammit! 😂

I had a threesome when I was younger with my ex and his mate, although it was great at the time, it ruined our relationship.
From what I gather though, there’s a lot of couples on FAB where threesomes are part of their open relationship.
If I was single, I would do it again 😉

Make sure you speak to the woman and not just the man even if he does claim to do all the organising.

I have had several good meetings through fab with couples and singles.

It is right, of course, to consider personal safety. However, I think the axe murderers will just pounce randomly out of the shadows when you are walking home; they are unlikely to use web sites, etc.

That's not true, actually. You are much more likely to be attacked by a man who has first engaged you socially. Lunatics jumping out of the bushes are vanishing rare.

Hook up sites and OLD apps are known to be a hunting ground for men with dark triad traits.