Is partner saying 'I'm going to cum' normal?

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Hiya

Just read on another thread that someone thought it was odd that her partner told her when he was about to come.

I thought this was quite normal- my man always gives me warning and I like that 😊

What about others?

Always warn her unless she teases me about catching her off guard......

For me it's normal my DH tells me 9/10 times the 10th time probably happened to catch him off guard.

Normal for me. It helps us both to focus on the moment.

I like to know ... I think it's quite sexy and you also know to keep doing what you're doing 😉

I always ask whether my partner whether and where she wants me to cum. If I were not to ask, I have a feeling that she might be able to guess that I am about to ejaculate.

I can normally tell when DP I about to come, but I find it a huge turn on when he tells me.

He tells me for oral because whether or not I swallow depends on my mood so he gives me notice.

For Vaginal sex he doesn't tell me but frankly I can tell from the way his movement/ rhythm and breathing changes beforehand

I think most men do as a sort of "courtesy". At least most of my partners have.
My current partner doesn't and initially it bothered me because I hate asking or wondering. But now I know by his breathing/rhythm.

If oral I'll tell my DP as she likes to take me to the back of her throat to swallow. My ex used to want to know as she didn't like me to cum in her mouth. Guess which I prefer

DP always tells me, I think most men do.

I don’t - but whether PIV, mouth or hand, DW knows when I am about to.

There was a thread a few years ago about the things men do or say when they are about to come, it was hilarious. Also Penetration man about the things partners say during Sex

@Anotherblokelurking That does sound entertaining!

To answer OP: I would regard as very weird if he didn't. Also, if you want to try to cum at the same time as him it's the only way to do it.

He doesn't, but maybe he used to when we first got together, I can't remember. Now I know when he's about to anyway by the way things change.

DH doesn't tell me, but I tell him when I'm close as he's usually holding off for me and then we come together 😬

If it’s a regular partner you very quickly pick up the signs so it really isn't necessary. It’s one of the advantages of a stable relationship.

Mine tells me - but oddly enough out of the many sexual partners I have had in my life-he is the first.
I found it really odd at first but don’t now.

Very normal I think. It’s polite to warn if someone is going to come on your body/face, and is incredibly sexy to hear!

I have to ask permission before I can cum so for us it's normal, others not so much

I sometimes tell my dw when I’m going to cum during PIV although it’s normally quite apparent what’s about to happen. This is the same if it’s a blowjob. However, i do like to finish myself off sometimes by cumming on her breasts or bum. In these instances I would let her know, especially if there’s a chance my cum may reach her face, as that sort of stuff generally isn’t appreciated if out of the blue.

When we first started dating my husband did. Now he doesn't bother, I can just tell from his body language anyway

I tell DH so he can get ready to as well, we usually finish at the same time. He always waits for the “green light”.

My DP usually tells me: I find it sexy and often we end up cumming together as a result.
My DP also seems to enjoy it when I tell him when I’m about to cum: he uses it as either a green light to cum at the same time or he sometimes pauses to make me edge (or we do a bit of playing with orgasm denial- either one-sided or switching).

Overall I’d prob find it very odd if neither of us mentioned our closeness to orgasm.

I think it's normal. Some have and some haven't. Current partner doesn't say it, but it's quite obvious anyway!