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[zoomzoghedgehog]

Hi myself and my partner havnt made love in a year as he is waiting for to be circumcised and it's very painful. Breaks my heart for him. He's never been one to go down on me or anything. I'm literally horny all the time, I masturbate at least once a day. God it's so tough on us both. Think will have a dirty weekend away when we can finally make love.

I can understand then why he doesn't want to do things if painful when getting an erection as most men will get one just giving oral sex. Just wonder why he hasn't addressed this before?

OP...for the money it will be so worth going private. When we looked around certain clinics specialise in circumcisions. As I said, there are different methods so he can chose. But you can also chose a "style" which means how much foreskin they cut and where. Ie sometimes they can just snip some away or circumcise it all. We decided he would have a full tight one which meant all the foreskin was taken away, which from what your DP is experiencing sounds like the best. My DH kept his frenulum though.

His recovery was quick, no complications and I love the different feel. As the penis doesn't have skin to go up and down inside, when he is inside you, you will really feel it moving...at least I did🥰🥰🥰. I also love the look...just his getting out of the shower, it's nice to have a full view!!

Given how you feel about him it will be worth the money if you can manage it

I've found one clinic which is about £400. Just money being furloughed etc is so tight and we have three children to support to.

I never dreamed you had children. When did the foreskin start being tight?

Borrow the money.

Get a intrest free credit card?

About a year ago it became tight gp visit and cream/ antibiotic meds. Happened a few times got referred. Had video appointment two weeks ago and been advised will go ahead in three months

I had experience of this about 15 years ago when starting to have regular unprotected PIV having used condoms previously. Had always had a tight foreskin and was pretty painful as it drew back but generally started to stretch enough to get the job done.

After shagging like rabbits for a few weeks it became very painful one day, with sores and flaky skin so both went straight to GUM clinic fearing herpes - both clean but Dr spotted lots of small tears caused by "vigorous activity" effectively resulting in a graze (ouch) steroid cream sorted it out in the end but realistically should have had an op when young as had been diagnosed with a tight foreskin aged around 5/6.

...basically trying to empathise with the gent in question as it was v v painful getting an erection when things were scabbed over! TMI?!

zoom, can you manage for another three months? Time soon passes and you've coped so far.

Tightend, you have my sympathy and I hope all is well now.

@jessstan2 3 children and a deeply, deeply satisfied wife are all you need to know

Thank you @TightEndNamechange for sharing your experience and I'm so glad you are better now.
I know it isn't his fault and in sickness and in health- vows I took years ago and still hold to me.
No chance I'd ever ever leave or anything because of this. I can wait. Getting him pain free is more important

Thank you @TightEndNamechange for sharing your experience and I'm so glad you are better now.
I know it isn't his fault and in sickness and in health- vows I took years ago and still hold to me.
No chance I'd ever ever leave or anything because of this. I can wait. Getting him pain free is more important