Sex survey 4. It would be great but I simply couldn’t.

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This, like all my planned survey questions, only needs very simple answers and no justification. Only women need reply. Before anyone asks, I have no good reason to want to know the answers other than curiosity.

Situation: the first time you are going to have sex with a new man. There are lots of things you have done sexually before that you enjoyed. But is now the right time for all of them? After all it is the first time with him and who knows where the relationship will go.

Question: name one (sex) thing you have done before and you enjoyed that you would not do the first time you have sex with a new man. If it’s been a long time since you had a new man, please feel free to use your imagination about what you would and wouldn’t do. “Nothing” (as in you wouldn’t restrict yourself from anything you enjoy) is a valid answer.

My answer: swallow or generally let him cum anywhere except in a condom.

This is really interesting, I would want a longer time for sex but when it happens, I would say anything goes

Hmmmm, depends on the individual really. Obviously protected, but as someone who's quite sexually open, I'd not put specific limitations on anything other than BDSM as that's definitely a trust thing.

BDSM. It’s only fun if you know and trust each other fully. Also it’s only worth the hassle if you think it’s going to be repeated. First fuck is to establish basic compatibility which includes anal, oral etc

BDSM for me too, maybe very light choking or hair pulling if he asked first. My DP waited til the 3td time and I think it needs discussion first.