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New partners struggling to come.Maybe ED?

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notmrscookie · 24/06/2020 18:38

New partner we have spent time in bed and He can get an erection but he has omly come once.

He says he us enjoying it and doesn't have an issue but we have spent loads of time on foreplay and not managed sex.

He is shy but when I ask him is he enjoying what I am doing such as blow job or foreplay he says yes but gives no preference or tips.

Feeling like I am a failure. I am not a small girl but he doesn't seem to bothered. He generally is really happy .He is telling the truth. I am meeting his mates etc..
Just need the final piece of the jigsaw to fit..

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Thelittleweasel · 24/06/2020 21:40

If he is normally erect the delay could be "retarded ejaculation" which is possibly psychological and may be related to sexual guilt. May wear off with patience

Anotherblokelurking · 25/06/2020 07:53

You don’t mention age, previous sexual history - is he experienced etc - or medical issues? Getting an erection indicates that the equipment is working, but not maintaining it or not ejaculating could be (a) as mentioned above, something like stage-fright or nerves/shyness in a new relationship, or (b) a prostate or other medical issue in that area.

notmrscookie · 25/06/2020 23:31

@Anotherblokelurking
He is 48. He is on high blood pressure tablets. I dont think he has had loads of relationships.He is rather lacking in opening up . He did say stage fright but unsure how to help him ..He has invited me over for a 3 nt weekend stay and i am almost dreading it ..
He can make me come on foreplay alone and i cant repay the favour .
I just cant get him to open up re issues either..

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Anotherblokelurking · 26/06/2020 07:18

Hopefully if it’s stage-fright rather than anything medical he may overcome this over a long weekend. Also he may relax and open up. Fingers crossed.

notmrscookie · 26/06/2020 13:12

@Anotherblokelurking..Thank you a very useful article

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FartingNora · 28/06/2020 09:11

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LHReturns · 01/07/2020 00:40

Delayed ejaculation is definitely a thing. Often to do with struggling to let go. Also death grip....(very tight grip when masturbating over time...impossible for vagina to replicate). It’s not normal but it is common.

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