Snowballing

[Littlemix1]

Hey so me and my partner are bored in lockdown (live separate) so talk a lot of all the sex stuff of all the things we want to try and do when we finally can see each other and snowballing has been brought up, just wondered if anyone had done snowballing with there partner. Do you find it much of a turn on or not worth the bother?

Also any other advice on things to do whilst being separated to spice things up. We have a lush 2 which he controls from his and have a few other things but not sure of what else can do. TIA

Yes absolutely. Test for a new partner as well! If he shies away then consider not keeping him!

@Littlemix1

@Thelittleweasel thank you for your reply. We are a fairly new couple anyways (got together before lockdown) he seems up for it but guess see when we are in person

As a man, I love it. Snowballing is extremely intimate and if any woman has ever given me a BJ then I make a point of immediately going in for a full-on, tongue wrestling, cum swapping session. I would consider it utterly bizarre for a man to expect a woman to have his semen in her mouth, but not be happy to do it himself.

It's excellent that DP is keen ... some men - as I imply want the BJ and not the snowball!

@Littlemix1

I do it, I am of the opinion that good sex should be sweaty, sticky and involve as much swapping of bodily fluids as possible. I didn't even ask OH it just seemed like the natural thing to do. Try it and have fun.

@Thelittleweasel oh yeah. Well he seems quite up for trying loads of new things which is strange as never met anyone like it before (in a good way) but if it's good for us then it's good for them haha

Thank you everyone for your responses

I love this!!! Highly recommend. Only found two guys up for it tho

All the time. Without thinking now. It turns us both on sharing so intimately.

Thanks guys. Sounds reassuring. I know I'll love it. But guess not all men do hopefully DP will

Sorry.... what is snowballing??

The term was new for me too.

Presume it also applies for when he gives oral after cumming inside and then kissing after. I cannot get enough of that with my partner.

The “passing” of semen between mouths after a successful blow job sounds utterly disgusting. I’m not a prude and I happily swallow, but passing it back to my DH - just gross.

He has given me oral after ejaculating inside me. It was his idea but he was a bit concerned that he might taste some of himself !

Thankfully I don’t think practice will work for either of us.

I don't think telling consenting adults what they are doing is "disgusting or gross", is acceptable, especially as it's been posted in the "Sex" topic! No woman (or man) should be made to feel ashamed about what they enjoy doing with their partner.

If you think snowballing is gross your eyeballs would explode at the things I regularly indulge in.

My idea of "gross" sexual activity would be to have "vanilla" sex, once a month, in the dark, in the missionary position but I appreciate for other people that's their ideal sex life and I would never call it "gross or disgusting" simply because it's not something I enjoy.

Snowballing is not disgusting nor is any act that consenting adults choose to indulge in.

That should read unacceptable!

It doesn't appeal to me at all. I love giving oral and have no qualms whatsoever about female bodily fluids, I just don't revel in the idea of deliberately ingesting my own. I wouldn't call it gross, it's just not for me. If some men enjoy it then good for them but I'm just not one of them. I'm not going to feel guilty about that either as I don't believe women should ever feel obliged to swallow as part of oral if they don't want to. There is a balance to be struck. Healthy sex does require trying new things and being adventurous but if somebody is just not into a particular activity they should never be coerced or pressured into it.

Things like this (e.g. snowballing, swallowing, ATM etc) where there is no direct physical stimulus, purely psychological, are fine if both parties are fully up for it and get a kick out of it. Then it's perfectly healthy. When it is something that one party gets a kick out of because they are dominating the other person into doing something they are not keen on then it is not healthy.

Certainly something I’d be more than willing to to try if DW suggested it

Well said achillesratty. And you made me laugh.

DH loves this

I'm a guy and have no issues with this during an intimate ,passionate session.

I don’t know if it has a name but kissing after receiving oral or analingus is also interesting as a woman. No fluids (“snowball”) but you still get to taste yourself which is very unusual and exhilarating.

I kiss after oral but not specifically to swap fluids, it is just normal to kiss after sex. I have no issue with it though.
A friend of mine told me he doesn't even let his girlfriend kiss him afterwards at all if he's cum in her mouth. Now I think that is odd.

Nah, we are into a lot of kinky stuff, but that's not something I'd be keen to do. I'm happy to swallow, but feel funny kissing after and if he cums in me, I'm reluctant to let him go down on me after.

Some men are turned on by the idea of snowballing, then less keen after they've climaxed. So I go in for the kiss quickly, before he gets a chance to overthink it.

@MissConductUS