Anal orgasm are real!

[mumofthree1993]

Anal orgasms are real!
I have always been against it until recently,
Anybody else the same!
If anything I am now obsessed with this new type of orgasm, sounds crued but I am not embarrassed about it😀, but... all of my friends think it's insane and say NEVER

Just me or?

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Not at all @mumofthree1993

They are bloody immense!

Least I'm not the only one I thought I was crazy for a second there 😂

I'm interested in this ...
How long does the "play" need to be?
And is it just from penetration or will toys also do it ?
I know everyone is different but what works for you ??

Me too, I was dramatically against it for years and now have quite a craving for it. It is INTENSE

What is it about them thats so good and how are they different to piv ones?

I've not managed to orgasm thru anal quite yet, but we are very new to it! Have to say I enjoy it and the feeling is amazing, I don't think it'll be long until I do 😉

@changeofname890
Do you have to play with your clit at the same time to enjoy it?
My wife says it feels great and she can come from it but has to play with her clit at the same time. I've been with women who can cum from anal with and without playing with their clit.

Nope. No I dont. Extraordinary.

@R2519 I've only had it a few times and have been just focused on the feeling of it for the moment. My partner has used his fingers there but I've not had to yet. Can't wait to try it again though. We've also only used condoms but are both keen to ditch them. Does anyone else not bother with them? x

I'm intrigued by this thread, I have always been very very against it as couldn't see how there would be any pleasure but DH very keen to try but I'm nervous!

@changeofname890
Condoms are good to start. Once you have confidence you can ditch them but just remember the 2 important rules......lots of lube and after anal don't do PIV until washed.
Its great you're enjoying it. I've always loved anal and done right it can be really pleasurable. Just don't over do it! Lol x

@wizzbangfizz
Nervous is normal. Have you done anything in that area before? If not then Start slowly. Fingers and maybe a beginners buttplug. When you want to go to the next step lots of lube and time and patience is key. He needs to take it slowly otherwise you'll not enjoy it and it will put you off trying again.

@wizzbangfizz I have always been dead against it too, thought the whole idea was gross to be honest! However, I am with a newish partner, we started exploring and he used a finger to start with that felt amazing, and then we just decided to try it. I was nervous at first, but there was no pain or discomfort. But do use plenty of lube x

Bit of rimming which I love and an occasional finger when I'm on top

I love a bit of anal. Possibly slightly obsessed with it. But it’s never brought me to orgasm. But then neither has vaginal sex so maybe that’s to be expected 🤷🏻‍♀️

I love anal but have not yet had an orgasm from it. I tend to like it after I’ve already cum as I’m more relaxed then and that makes it easier

Conventional wisdom will say "Lots of lube and go slow".

But it's much more than that...

Most people are scared of pain or poo! But if you can have an adult conversation about that, crack on! ^
pun intended^

Guys I have always been against it, but as I got older I tried it. Then again.. anal sex does not hurt if it is done right!! Play for along as you need to , to begin with but the thought of anal sex now turns me on so I really don't need much play!
I mentioned it to one of my friends and she nearly died of the idea ( hasn't mentioned it since haha) I can completely orgasm from it but clit play too

Wasn't there some stat that women who have anal sex have more orgasms?

I always orgasm from anal sex, but it is still not as good as non-anal sex. The focus on orgasms seems like a very male way of thinking about sex.

I don't understand the women who say there is no pain or discomfort. Are you using normal water based lube and if so, how long are you having sex for? If it's more than a couple of minutes then I must just be very sensitive. I can't have anal sex more than about once a week!

We used coconut oil last night and that seemed to very much do the trick @notevenat20... it’s always been slightly painful but enjoyable before. Last night was just pure

I don't use lube at all really because I'm already quite wet from vaginal sex first or oral! You need to be relaxed enough that's why it hurts.. take it slow and when your sphincter muscle relaxes
Enough it will feel nice. Problem is people have the fear of it hurting that makes them tense not be able to relax the muscle. I have had some serious orgasms from it so every time I goto do it now I am so relaxed because a tiny bit of pain when enters occasionally but then I'm relaxed enough and I know what's coming. Some people have fear of the unknown.
They say to have enough foreplay in that area first which helps you relax but over time you possibly won't have to. The anal orgasm is awesome and so much more intense then a vaginal orgasm!

Im worried about pain and poo! But definitely intrigued...

Supposities clear you out but if anal
Sex is done correctly it shouldn't hurt just means you are not relaxed enough. I have done anal sex in the past where it has really really hurt and I swore I'd never do it again, because it wasn't done correctly and my muscles clearly was not relaxed.

Why are you telling all your friends?

@notevenat20 Gun oil is a very good lube to use, its silicone based so you only need a small amount as your body won’t absorb it. Almost daily event at the moment, no pain, no discomfort and there never has been. I’m a man, but fairly sure my bum isn’t really any different, so doubt that would make a difference.