Blow jobs and hygiene

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Has anyone successfully managed to have this conversation witho embarrassment and offensive?

My new boyfriend is hygienic in general - no worries about smells or cleanliness in any sense except his penis smells of urine. Suspect it is because he is very (very!) small when flaccid and so is soaking his pubes when going for a wee.

I tried to give him head today which normally I love, and had to stop immediately because of the smell. Granted it was 10+hours after his shower but still

Is there a way without being blunt?

Some men,,not all ! I know where the shower is and my bits are spotlessly clean. I expect the same of any woman in my bed.

Well problem solved - hopefully! After a day in the sunshine I suggested we start off with a shower to freshen up so I could go down on him. (In slightly more graphic terms ) Went well and we moved to the bedroom when he announced he was off for a wee

When he came back I made a joke about how he'd waited till he was clean to go for a wee - to make it clear why we'd showered. Went to go down anyway and ended up forgetting all the tips and blurting out 'you smell of wee'

He took this surprisingly well and did keep trying to tell me not to worry/bother but I convinced him to just let me use a baby wipe in some sort of weird hand job (romantic I know) and then we cracked on. Hoping this will solve the issue now it's out in the open!

I don't think it's his pubes... unless he's pissing against a wall stood only a few inches away for it for such splash back to soak his pubes 😂

It's likely his foreskin (if he has one) or nose residue wee on his thing! They don't wipe remember so there will always be residue there.

I simply would not do down on a man unless it was freshly washed. Nor would I expect it back. Freshly washed always NOT just after a wee either ew!

Tell him it is polite to wash his willy thoroughly before sex. It is! Also for women to wash their vulvas.

I will always ensure my partner has washed/showered before foreplay, just as I would for my partner. Hours after a shower, I can imagine there would be a whiff of urine. I couldn’t perform on a guy who wasn’t clean down there.