Boyfriend came in back of throat

[lennyhenryslaugh]

Had a lovely sexy sesh. At the end both tried to make each other cum but he was faking a while so I took him in my mouth, without warning he came at he was deep in my throat. I started gipping and he was laughing ☹️

We had discussed this before and I had told him I might do it when I was ready, I would have preferred warning too.

I'm really sad, this is a good relationship but I feel violated 😢😢😢

Might do what when you were ready? You had him in your mouth, was your goal not to get him to ejaculate?

No he said would you swallow and I said i would think and maybe do it if I were ready.

Usually when we do this he warns me then I pull him out of my mouth

I think recognise things like that can happen very spontaneously. He could have pulled out I guess but if you are not willing then he needs to know and stop you sucking him well before

Don't underestimate the pleasure he will have and also reflect back on you for doing it though. DH loves it and always gives me it back after to make me have a very intense orgasm

I don’t swallow and wouldn’t be thrilled but sometimes it happens.
You’ve had as you worded it a lovely sexy sesh and then you took him in your mouth perhaps he just really enjoyed it and had no time to warn you.
I’d say it was a bit of an occupational hazard 🤷🏼‍♀️

Aw thanks guys. I've got over the initial shock and we have had a chat and we can laugh about it now, I live the fact that I gave him so much pleasure...

Oh crikey, I don't want to read about this, I pressed the wrong topic, I wanted the yoga topic ha ha.

Bloke here. It’s normal and gentlemanly to give warning to allow the lady to get ready how she wants.

Just letting go like that sounds dangerous and uncaring, and I’m not surprised OP feels assaulted.

Might do what when you were ready? You had him in your mouth, was your goal not to get him to ejaculate?

@dementedpixie Some of us might swallow, a lot of women don't and that's fine.

@lennyhenryslaugh Please look after yourself, it could be that he turns out not to be a very considerate or nice person. Please keep an eye on how he acts in daily life/sex. xx

Thank you both xx