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Sub dom - explain what it really entails?

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Eesha · 02/04/2020 19:22

Im considering going on a fab date of sorts with someone who has been labelled a natural dominant when this covid stuff ends. What should I expect? He doesn't do whips and chains but that's the image I've always had in my head about these people. Any thoughts what to actually expect sexwise?

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xpc316e · 03/04/2020 09:02

The world of BDSM encompasses so many things on so many different levels that it is impossible to give you any idea of what to expect. If he has any experience of being a Dom, he should be absolutely familiar with any practice having to be safe, sane, and consensual. In order that you can consent, you must be aware of what will take place and that means there must be very clear lines of communication between the two of you.

If you do not sense that this is the case on your date, then make your excuses and leave.

Best wishes.

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Eesha · 03/04/2020 14:41

@xpc316e Thank you! It's very early on in chats but he said he laughs a lot and doesn't take it too seriously. He says it's more a taking control thing as his life outside is not like that. Whereas I think my life is super controlled and I have been submissive in ways with my FWB. I'm just not into gimp masks or being abused so that's not the route I want to go down at all.

We will probably go for a drink when this is all over and see where that leads us.

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mamato3lads · 03/04/2020 19:10

It's not all gimp masks and chains OP, not at all, unless you want that of course Grin

It's about him having control of your pleasure....you trusting and submitting to him will come naturally if there's a fit but crystal clear communication is vital, as is absolute honesty.

Get to know him properly, then relax and enjoy xx Smile

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Eesha · 04/04/2020 16:46

@mamato3lads it's something which I think I might enjoy but we agreed to just meet for a drink and chat etc when this is all over and see. Also this would be very casual too, not sure I want that as already have a FWB!

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NoBloodyFighting · 05/04/2020 20:06

Hey Eesha I recognise you from OLD thread. Happy to answer any questions via PM if you want, I have experience with this (currently in d/s) x

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Eesha · 05/04/2020 22:29

Thanks @NoBloodyFighting, will pm you now

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