First time lesbian sex, so nervous

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I'm bisexual but have always been too scared to make the leap and actually sleep with a woman, but wanted to so much. Well I've met a lovely woman online, she's ten years younger than me and we've been chatting and now planning to meet this week. We're thinking of meeting at a hotel and if it feels right to sleep together.. just so nervous as I have never done anything with a woman except kiss, so would really appreciate some advice or tips, thanks.

Just relax OP. I've had a few GF's that have made the leap from bi curious to bi sexual. It's just a date and if there is chemistry it will happen naturally. If she is more experienced then she will lead the experience.
I remember my GF's gong on their first G/G date. They were nervous and came through it unscathed :)
The usual rules apply, stay safe, boundaries, beware of red flags etc.

Years ago I became bicurious and decided to act upon my feelings with another man I met on a minority interest forum. I can still vividly remember how nervous I was when we met; my heart felt as though it was about to burst from my chest. Within minutes of meeting we were at each other.

The experience was quite wonderful and incredibly pleasurable. It involved mutual oral sex. We met a second time and it was equally as good. There were no subsequent liaisons for the slightly odd reason that if we continued I would have been unable to donate blood, and that was something very important to me.

I am glad that I acted on my feelings and the experience led to me reexamining my sexuality and sexuality in general. I now believe in losing labels and think that there is just sex. Sometimes that might be with a woman, and other times a man; it all depends on whether I am attracted to a person and not what type of genitals they possess.

I am now in a committed, wonderful, exclusive, heterosexual relationship but I have no regrets about what I discovered about myself. My advice would be to follow your feelings and hopefully have a wonderful, enlightening time.

Best wishes.

If she is particularly experienced then she will probably sense that your new to things and help guide the process. If you are both new to it, focus on different forms of masturbation and then simply “help” your partner with these and that will get the ball rolling. You don’t have to be pulling any athletic moves from the off

Relax and be in the moment. When you really fancy someone it's easier to work out what makes them and you happy. The great thing about lesbian sex is it's free from the usual expectations (or can be).
Use all of your body and have a blast. As with any sex, lack of inhibitions and generosity make for a damn good time

Maybe take some some sex toys to use together. I've played with a fair few women and toys always relieve the tension. But even if not, it really isn't anything to get stressed about. If it feels right just go with the flow. The rest will work itself out.

We're all different but I'd be unimpressed if someone turned up with toys on a first night. It implies you need additional help, that you're inadequate on your own. Later on using stuff if agreed would seem more reasonable
I'd recommend that you use your senses and your body when you're getting to know someone sexually.

Hi, I wanted to wish you luck and also ask a question. I am in the same boat- bicurious for a long time and have finally plucked up the courage to be with a woman. However the woman I have been chatting line with and was supposed to have a date with this week has now ghosted me. 🙁 can I ask which website you used to find your date?

I know it is easier just to say it, but relaxing and just seeing how things go is the best approach. It will probably be really natural.

Whilst I can't speak from a very experienced position only having had a couple of experiences, my first was just not being able to get home from a party and having to borrow a spare room,,,waking to her sat in my bed and well wanting to massage me. For some reason I thought why not and she gave me an amazing massage with hands gradually wondering and making me feel amazing. So not rushing things is definitely my tip and do try things like massage.

The following morning she did try a vib on me which again was new to me but I loved. I look back in fondness to the experience even though married to DH now

Personally I would have the first meeting as just a drink or coffee then if you can get arrange a hotel etc. I think the first meet should be casual with no expectations