Sexy attire for flat chested woman

[Scarcity20]

Hi all I'm looking for something to make me feel more confident in the bedroom. I have awful post children boobs. Literally, what were once tiny but pert are now like awful flaps of skin and if I lean forward... Well I just don't like to!! so as you can imagine it limits what I feel like doing in the bedroom!
Starting dating again so want something I can keep on, although I know I could just say I want to keep my bra on... But would be nice to have something a bit sexy. I've been on love honey and ordered some Basque style things and corsets (with padded cups) but I have seen some nice strappy looking tops (on porn🤣) which I liked the look of but no idea where to find them?? They were like black body stocking style but obviously I'd need some lift and support? Any ideas appreciated or if anyone knows where I can find a rich man to fund a boob job for me that be great as I definitely don't have those funds😂

Try Bluebella

I'd pref flappy over fake anyway, don't like fake tits.

2nd for Bluebella.

Excellent quality and has the, erm, desired effect for the smaller of boob (or any boob).

Big time.

Thanks all! I've had a look on bluebella and very impressed! Nice to see them modelled by women with boobs smaller than my head too😂 Atleast I can get a proper idea of what they would look like on me then. Plus maybe nice bra's look a bit less trying so hard than full on gear!
Thanks for the male perspective too, I would honestly never have considered a boob job before and wouldn't want big ones now just literally back to what they were before. They actually make me feel a bit 🤮 when I see them so I'd feel sorry for any guy looking at them!

My partner is Asian and has small breasts. Before we were intimate she was mortified at the thought of being naked with me. When we finally got down to doing the deed I thought that her breasts were lovely and couldn't see why she was nervous.

Over the years we have been together she has gained a huge amount of confidence about her body and has even had her nipples pierced. She now enjoys the reaction she gets from me by showing off her breasts. The message here is that confidence is incredibly sexy and I would add to that by saying that if you are not confident about your boobs, then fake it until you are.

By all means buy some clothes that make you feel good about yourself, but the bottom line is that partners will end up seeing you totally naked, so you need that inner confidence. If a man makes any adverse remarks, or in any way reacts in a manner that is detrimental to your confidence, then I am afraid that he is not worthy of being in bed with you.

Best wishes.

Thankyou xpc3 I really appreciate your commitment. Thing is which I'm sure people in my predicament will actually understand is I can't fake confidence in leaning over a new partner with tits that look like an 80 yr old granny would have. Could you?? Genuinely? And seriously. They are not good. I used to do that as they were at least attached to my body now they do their own thing. Actually Google it and you'll see what I mean 😢 I honestly came to terms with small tits years ago😂

Why would your boobs be anything like an 80yr old granny would have? Are you 80? Are you a granny? As above, the key is working on your confidence. Feel free to dump anybody who's rigidly fixated on C+ type if you ever come across them - you might never do!

I was AA prior to having kids and almost A now after kids so I must be quite close to you in body shape. I'm 6ft. I'd say my major challenge is finding the bra that actually fits, I looked quickly at Bluebella and there isn't much there that would fit me, not in the sense of what I like, but just correct size, plain and simple. I have a few brands that I know fit well (Gap, very strangely - Primark, Calvin Klein) and stick to those.

Re body stocking - yes they're good, if you mean fishnet then I don't think you need support - it's supposed to be very revealing so silky bralet would work better, I think anything heavy or padded would look a bit odd. If you can wear stuff without bra at all, as most flat chested ladies can, then focus on your back - it's mega sexy to have an open back with no straps at all. A police outfit with an open back perhaps? Where to get them - lovehoney, Ann Summers.

Have fun :)

Playful promises have a lot of nice things 😁

Try a balconette bra, they are very flattering for small boobs, front opening non wired bras are good too. I find Sainsburys has some very pretty bras for smaller chests.

Scarcity20, in answer to your question, no I probably could not feel confident, but as I said it is all about faking it.

I teach Year 5/6 children to ride their bicycles on the roads and I tell them that it is OK to feel your tummy churning over and over, but you must appear confident to other traffic - as soon as you look nervous, they'll bully you into doing what they want. I get them to 'fake it until they can make it', and guess what? They do it, and after a few attempts they love doing it too.

As I said earlier, sooner or later a man will see you naked in all your glory. Don't try too hard because you are self-conscious about your boobs. Any decent guy knows they come in all shapes and sizes, and will judge you on your many other qualities, not on the size and perkiness of your breasts. I am quite sure that you have some weapons in your armoury that will take his mind off your breasts.

I have ED at times, so I know what it is like to climb into bed with someone for the first time and have issues weighing on one's mind. If you were to discuss beforehand the insecurity you feel about your breasts, would that help? Again, any man worth his salt is going to be entirely supportive of you and if he isn't like that when you have the 'I am really attracted to you and I'd like to take you to bed' chat then you simply don't have sex with him. I would feel hugely honored if a new partner leveled with me regarding her insecurities.

Best wishes.

Any new potential partner will be able to tell with your clothes on that you are small up top, and we are not all obsessed with big tits, so once you get to the bedroom stage you can be sure he will still be interested.

Any new potential partner will be able to tell with your clothes on that you are small up top
Haha I wouldn't be so sure, padded wired bras add a size and a half to how it looks!

Haha I wouldn't be so sure, padded wired bras add a size and a half to how it looks!
[GRIN]

(that's better!)

Bloke here.

See-through blouse!!