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Small penis tips needed

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Ohwhatfun · 14/02/2020 03:42

Advice needed! I have just started seeing a man and last night discovered he has quite a small penis, on top of that he’s quite overweight. I’ve not been in this position before and wondered what tips people had to “handle” the situation - positions etc

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mindreaderofdarkthoughts · 14/02/2020 04:10

Honestly without sounding like an asshole , I left a guy for this .

Unless he is good with his hands and his mouth, it doesn't work.

But I'm an asshole and I have a ridiculously high sex drive

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Ohwhatfun · 14/02/2020 05:54

I won’t lie that has been a consideration. This is more of a physical relationship than anything else

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AverageGuy · 14/02/2020 10:14

Op,
There are positions that favour the less well endowed, if you are willing to give him a chance.

Plastic "extensions" are available from sex shops, but I have no personal experience of what they are like.

If none of that floats your boat, and he isn't any good with what he does have pm me I'd say move on.

stakeholderwizz · 14/02/2020 11:43

If this is just a bit of fun and he isn't wowing you with his mouth and hands I'd move on.

Namechangedyorkshire · 14/02/2020 12:40

Given that this is purely a physical relationship, surely the focus is on having the right physical attributes? I guess being overweight also exaggerates the size issue and makes him look smaller but in reality if you are looking for physical fun then I suggest you move in and find a guy that is more well endowed.

To be honest, unless he has amazing attributes with his tongue and fingers, you want one with a decent sized cock as there is nothing better than feeling full and stretched in my experience.

NameChangeNugget · 14/02/2020 13:29

You don’t sound like an asshole @mindreaderofdarkthoughts, just honest.

I wouldn’t date an overweight person with a small penis. What’s the point? I would be physically repulsed and would barely feel anything

crimsonlake · 14/02/2020 13:48

Does not sound like an attractive proposition at all basically.

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Ohwhatfun · 14/02/2020 14:28

Sensing a theme here, maybe I should just move on. His weight isn’t an issue in terms of how he looks, it just adds the the size issue logistically! Might give it another go and see what other skills he has before writing him off. Any tips on positions etc??

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Jane1978xx · 14/02/2020 15:40

If this is a fwb type situation and you aren’t attracted to him and his body I wouldn’t even bother

AverageGuy · 14/02/2020 16:00

Op, if you google (other search engines are available! Smile) "sex positions for small penis", there are quite a few results.

Hester54 · 14/02/2020 18:43

Just for context, what size are we talking about ?

FluffyComet · 14/02/2020 18:49

Good old doggy is probably the way to go if you want him in as deep as possible.

Having said that I prefer to Lie on top of him and instead of thrusting do a slow grind, rolling your hips and rubbing against his penis and pubic bone. A slow grind definitely works and sort of using your muscles to milk him.

We didn’t work out for other reasons but I did enjoy the sex. Although he was small he did manage to hit the right spot.

FluffyHippo · 15/02/2020 07:30

Do you realise how shallow most of you sound?

Imagine if the roles were reversed and you had a group of blokes saying 'Oh no, small tits! It'd never work for me! You should finish it.'

Namechangedyorkshire · 15/02/2020 07:53

@FluffyHippo well yes...of course it is shallow. She is in it for the sex as opposed to love and relationship etc. And yes blokes are far more shallow generally as some won't even consider a girl without DD size boobs. Lol😆

Not illegal (yet) to be shallow in thought and deed

ILSSM · 15/02/2020 19:16

Wouldn’t bother personally.
Iv slept with a guy that was small, boring and he was crap at everything else.

ILSSM · 15/02/2020 19:17

@FluffyHippo - if someone didn’t like my small tits they are more then welcome to pass on by... it doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

StrawberryTot · 16/02/2020 00:16

My ex wasn’t the largest but that didn’t hinder our sex life. We found positions that worked for us (doggy, riding him), lots of foreplay, mutual masturbation and toys worked wonders. And in the end it wasn’t the reason I left him.

PussGirl · 16/02/2020 00:24

I've had some of my best sex with a guy with a small penis (around 4.5" erect & not very thick) - he was inventive and horny & we had a lot of fun in bed. Anal was particularly good.

BubblyBarbara · 16/02/2020 20:44

How is this a “physical relationship” when you’re basically saying he’s fat with a small knob. Unless that’s what you really fancy, and clearly it isn’t

Alonelonelyloner · 16/02/2020 21:08

@FluffyHippo sure but tits don't necessarily affect the actual logistics of sex. A small penis can and does affect a woman's enjoyment of sex. You can't ignore it like you can ignore tits which aren't to your liking. You can't compare the two.

A lot depends on how skilled this man is. A small penis doesn't necessarily make it crap. I did have a lover with a small penis who was just dreadful, but I did find putting a firm pillow under my arse helped (in missionary position.
I'm with a less endowed man now and it's great. No pillow needed so I think it really depends. But do try the pillow.

Arnoldthecat · 20/02/2020 10:52

If it isnt big enough for you, id cut loose now..

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SportGirl · 26/06/2024 07:14

Don't think this will end well

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