Since my fibro diagnosis (and before the diagnosis if I'm honest) my husband has gradually shown less and less interest in sex with me. He's always been a very courteous lover, making sure I'm satisfied and that everything is good, but now even when we do get going (maybe once every 5-6 weeks if I'm lucky), we don't often finish because he loses the arousal. We've managed to talk about it (very difficult as you can imagine as he doesn't like to talk about it) and I've come to the conclusion that he's afraid of hurting me. I hurt anyway, it really doesn't make that much difference, but he doesn't see it like that. I still want a sex life, cos even if it does hurt afterwards, it feels good at the time! Any suggestions on how I can help him get past this? Simple reassurance doesn't seem to be working :(